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Do I still have something for the ex?

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Ok backstory .. Me and this girl met online through a 'meet match' thing on a social network and we got to talking etc and within about 3 months or so we decided to try and see what a long distance thing and I had every intention in going to meet her any time I could. We ended up going out for about 8 months and it was great - I was falling for her but the last few weeks made it to difficult as we both got so busy we might go days at a time with just managing to say hey and sorry been so busy and it was only going to get more like that with both of us being really busy people at home and at college/work etc. the thing was I was unsure to tell her that I am/was trans and it scared the hell out of me that she'd reject it (scared anyone would) and that let me to end it.

We shared so much and seemed great. My family and friends knew about her and hers knew about me, unsure if her parents or older brothers knew much as I knew the men in her family were awfully protective and didnt like how we hadn't met..

ANYWAY! We drifted with the busy-ness and decided to be friends but I really do miss her, ive recently had dreams with her in them and she pops into my head now and again. I had a not even 3 month relationship and it went down hill fast.

Any insight or anything guys? Please and thank you ..