Is this kind of love possible?

Yes. I don’t know if I can call her my ‘ex’, cause our relationship was kinda beyond these tags but I remember, I was 15 back then. Even if it was like a year ago, it feels as though ages have passed since it happened. I had to go through menacing soul numbing pain and a complete breakdown to be able to do what I was able to.. I let her go. So she could be happy. Because at that moment, I wanted to see her happy more than anything else. Back then, she was everything to me…but my insides told me she would be more happy without me. I put her happiness first.

One point comes when all your selfish desires melt away. When all you want to see is happiness for the other person - and you could give everything up to make it happen.

However, as a side note we have been at least a million times better off being separate and living our own lives blissfully since then. So, I guess, everything happens at the end for a positive reason :)

But to answer your question, YES, that kind of love is possible. It is selfless. But it doesn’t last, to be honest. It’s basic human nature to be selfish and you can’t maintain selflessness in the relative - objective realm unless you embrace the nihilistic ideal

–Andrew