What would you do if??

To add to that, most definitely do not depend on her to have a child with (your previous question)

Okay, just because its your longest relationship, it doesn’t mean it’s worth keeping. Sit her down and talk to her one on one and tell her that you are extremely uncomfortable with the fact that she is exploiting her body and sharing it for anyone and everyone. Tell her that those pictures and videos will circulate on the Internet for the rest of her life, even if she takes them down people probably have them saved anyway. Ask her why she does this and why she feels the need to exploit herself this way. Tell her that it makes her look cheap and people won’t respect her. She won’t be able to get a job and it could potentially ruin her life. It’s up to you, but if I were you I would give her an ultimatum. If she doesn’t take those trashy photos and videos down, leave. She’s already been lying to you and going behind your back.

Hi, if I were in your shoes I would move on. I would tell her exactly what I found, tell her that its not something I can accept and move on. The reason I personally would be that way it’s because if I have to explain to the person I am dating that it’s disrespectful to do that shows that they truly don’t respect themselves. And at the end, you can’t teach anyone to do that it has to come from them. It’s just my point of view. I hope it gives you a different perspective.

uh thats nasty i would dump her if i were you she has no respect for herself or you…. that itself seems like cheating cause think of it this way if she sent a nude to another guy you wouldent be ok with it huh? cuz thats cheating but no instead she shows all her friends like wtf hows that ok? i would of dumped her along time ago.

This is what I said to her..

It won’t let me show you what I said to her

I would leave. Let me tell you this, 5 months in a relationship is nothing. Nothing at all. You don’t get to truly know your partner yet and if you are having problems, especially trust problems so soon already… it’s not going to work and it definitely will not get any better from here. Ask her to take them down for good, explain to her that this is unacceptable to you and if it’s something that she wants to, or insists on doing, that she can leave. In turn, if she continues to do so, just leave. She clearly doesn’t respect herself let alone you.