what should i do?

A little more than a year ago I met a guy I really liked him and he liked me too. we hung out a lot for like a week we we’re in the same school so we were together a lot, we kissed a few times one day after school the day after that he texted me telling me he was going to date another girl and that he was sorry at that moment it didnt hurt me. We’re best friends now I see him everyday.. but I fell in love with him..it hurts so much now to see him with that girl and I dont know what to do.

Answer #1

First off, I am sorry for your pain. Talk to him about your feelings if you feel led to. If his feeling are not mutual then in order to heal you need to move on. best of luck!

Answer #2

It sounds like he was really confused when he was with you and he ended up deciding on being with the other girl. It’s hard, but think of it this way… You wouldn’t want to have dated him longer if he still had feelings for someone else. You need to understand that this is what he wants, and I know it’s hard, but just try to be happy for him. There are a lot of other guys out there who would love to date you and will be able to give you mutual love and kindness.

Answer #3

First, that absolutely sucks and I’m sorry you had to go through that. It seems to me like it’s just really weird to be around him everyday, even if he doesn’t feel awkward; what’s important is how you feel. It’s good to either muster up the courage to talk to him about how you feel about him kissing you and then dating another girl or distance yourself from him a little bit, maybe at least until things change. I wouldn’t necessarily want to be around someone that made me feel like that, even if I had fallen in love with him because I know there’s someone out there who wouldn’t lead me on like that and would commit to a relationship if they showed those signs. Much love xx

More Like This
Advisor

Love & Relationships

Dating, Marriage, Breakups