my boyfriend and i have been together for a year now.but last nigh my friend show me a text that happen a few months ago. now i new he had my phone and he texted my friend . but what i dint know was he called her sexy and ask her how old she was . its like REALLY. . i want to tell him im done and he blow it. but at the same time i want to work it out and see it what happens. so wich do i go with. my head or my heart ?
It is very clear that he cheated on you, because he did send those messages while you were still together. It is also clear, that your friend is concerned about you, so she showed to you the text to warned you about your boyfriend. What you can do is talk to him about this situation, and ask for his explanation. Weigh his responses with you, and try to figure out if he is sincere and if he is sorry for what he did. If you are convince with his answer, and you think you can forgive and forget what happened then go on. But if you loss your trust in him, try to assess yourself, if you are willing to continue and can you trust him again?
The person has to be worthy of your time and your heart for ' going with your heart' to work. I had a friend who ' went with his heart ' the girl, who was also the mother of his two daughters screwed himover again and again, kept cheatin even after they tried to work it out. There's a fine line with following your heart and trying to work out something that just won't happen and isn't worth it. So if you think he deserves a chance talk to him about it, see how he responds and reacts and if you feel he deserves a chance, try to work it out.
okay . so here are the updates . i tryed to talk to him. his ryply was does that look like my typeing. , i told him rember i was there when you texted her. now a few time i have said lets talk about this text he try to avoid the subject.i don't see why not just talk about it? . im not as mad, but i still wanted to talk about it
go with your heart. Im bean with my gf for 3 years and last summer he cheat on me, i wanted her back i went with my heart and we worked it out. so go with your heart because if you guy love each other you guys so work it out
updates . i talk to him. he try to say that it wasint him. and everythime i want to bring it up he just changes the subject.. .
Well that gives you clear indication, doesnt it? its up to you now to decide what you want to do !!
Do you want to be with a liar and pretender or u wanna be free of this misery and agony !!
You are so right Janice ! be clear in your mind dear gal !!
sorry for the typos stupid computer
your a smart kid :]. thanks