Ok, so I was at the beach with my three friends. We went to the pool in the hotel, found some hot girls there and took them back to our room. Now, this isn't our first time getting laid. None of us were virgins before this. We each had sex with the a girl and idk what I was thinking but i went without a condom and now she's telling me that she's pregnant with my baby and I'm only 14. Please help me. What should I do? Should I make her get an abortion or something? Please help me. She's already four months into her pregnancy and I'm way to young to be a dad.
Greg, kids are great unless you’re not prepared to have them! That said no matter what you decide that’s your kid and at very least you will be made to pay for the rest of yours and your child’s life, like it or not. I know I have been in your shoes. I thought to do the right thing even though I had no plans to stay with my child’s Mom. The worst thing I did at the time is trust adults thinking that they had all of our best interests in mind. I was wrong. I was told I had no rights and that I was going to be forced to pay support with no rights to my child.
Well that’s not true I had rights but before I was able to act on them her Mom got her support and since I had no plans of staying with her she left town with my child and I have never seen here again. Having children is tuff with two prepared people on the same page. Its hell to have to pay both in cash and with a broken heart and the anxiety of not knowing the wellbeing of your child. I would talk to a lawyer and discuss your rights. Just because you have no plans to stay with the child’s mother you may want to know your child and what rights you have. Good Luck. Alex
First off, you're WAY too young to be running around stickin your d!ck in anything that walks. This is all completely your fault and the girl's fault because you both consented to have sex without a condom. Either one of you could be carrying diseases so that's just another thing for both of you to worry about. And now, you CANNOT force ANYONE to have an abortion. It is up to the girl. If you thought you were mature enough to go around sleeping with tons of girls, it's time to step up and be a man and take responsibility for your actions. Go to the doc with the girl, discuss all of your options, and just be there for her because this is your baby just as much as it is hers. Lesson learned now huh.
My best advice is to talk to her about giving the child up for adoption. You both are far too young to be having children because in fact that is exactly what you are. I hope you and your friends have learned a very valuable lesson in all of this and decide not to have intercourse anymore because it can happen to anyone at anytime. Also, seek getting a paternity test now to determine whether you are the father or cut a lucky break. Either way, you need to step up and be responsible for your actions. It won't be easy but if you can take part in adult things you can grow up and sacrafice things as well. Best of luck to you.
It's not your choice, it is hers. And it is too late for an abortion. Hopefully she will go with adoption - especially if she is near your age.
Do not marry her as she is not someone that you had a relationship with... BUT you now may well have a financial relationship with the child. Hopefully you can maintain contact with the child also.
MOST of all you will need to have your parents support you emotionally. And insist on a DND test. If she was casual enough to screw you four, ... who knows.
First off too late for abo.rtion. Second you should have thought of that before you started havinb sex obviously you guys aren't mature enough for sex. And 'make' her get an abor.tion? You don't make a girl in these situations do anything. It is up to her. And all yo can do is live up to your respnsibility and provide for the child.
is she was willing to go with a person she didnt know and not have a condom used then maybe its not ur kid but if so then live up to it, u had sex u pay the price. but i wouod definatly get a dna test done AND an STD test.
well get an early paternity test first. you dont have a lot of options and abortion is off the table (too late) so get a test done, if its yours tough luck, you have to stick it out...
if it isn't lucky you :O
Abortions are so wrong...it is not the baby's fault..he/she shouldn't have 2 pay the price, no matter how much this sucks 4 u :/ btw, be careful-aids, stds..r out there..
Be a man, you weren't too young for sex, so you're not too young to be a dad. Own up to your responsibility and do what is best for the child
From teen mom: "if you are mature enough to stick it up there, u better be mature enough to stick it out.."
Looks like you fucked up, bro!
i agree with u... :)