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What can I do about my brother's new attitude?

my brother has changed, he is not the person i grew up with, and the one thing that breaks my heart is that he doesn’t care about me, the only person he cares about is himself, and he has just become an evil person to hang around with, we used to be very close and now i feel as though he is pushing me away, he was the only person who fully understood me. what can i do? i am at my whits end.

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Answer #1

Treat him the way he treats you.. Maybe he needs a mirror to show him who he has become.. Have you thought that maybe he hasnt noticed the change in himself;.. Sometimes people think others have changed when its really just us. Have you talked to him? If all else fails, dont talk to him; maybe he wants to be left alone..

Answer #2

people change for now just deal with it… while in that situation u hv 2 find out what ur bro has going thru

Answer #3

Confront him about it. Ask him why he’s being the way he is and tell him how it’s effecting you. If he can’t give you a good reason, and he continues acting like that. You’re gonna need to cut him from your life. Whether it’s for a short period, or a long period, it needs to be done to knock some sense into him. Don’t treat him the way he treats you, just ignore him in every way possible. If he still cares for you, he’ll change for you. If he doesn’t, he doesn’t deserve to be a part of your life now anyway, even if you were really close before… Sometimes change can’t be helped

Answer #4

Be patient..over time we all go thru changes in attitudes,outlook,and faith..always be there for him..all will be fine in time….

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