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So, yeah. Recently single. Help me out people.
Depends where you are. But one that works for me 100% of the time (if they don't have a bf...even if they do sometimes" goes like this. If you see a girl smiling/checking you out. Walk up and say hey/hi. Shell respond with hi or hey, (if she's smiling when she says it she's flattered/interested still) ask what her name is, shell respond, maybe ask for yours. Then say insert name, you are very beautiful/gorgeous. Shell say thanks, maybe give you a compliment if she's flirty. Say thanks if she does that. Ask her where she's going, shell tell you. If you feel like ur really getting along and it's not awkward, ask if you can join her. If not, you say "I know we just met, but I have somewhere to be soon and I was wondering if I could get ut number? :)" and bam. Score. This only works ALL the time if you know she's checking you out, change it up to suit where u are.. And it works better and it's easier if she's alone. It can be done anywhere! Ive done it on public transit, restaurants, movies etc. Have fun with all the girls u want sir
I assume by "pick up" you mean to hook up with someone for casual sex. The first thing is to appear to be a normal nice guy. They need to trust that you are healthy and not a serial killer. The place most men mess up is blathering on about themselves trying to impress their love interest. What women want is someone who listens. Make the conversation mainly about her. After she opens up to you close the deal with a suggestion that she comes to your place to see your etchings or whatever.
it is better if you seem that you are trying to be friendly. too much compliments towards appearance will make it obvious that you just want to tap/bag. it is better to be friends for a little bit to see if you like that persons personality as well, then you can start for something more serious. if you do just want something quick well that is okay because there are ladies too with the same short term goals lol
Treat them with respect and show that you are confident. Don't treat them like they are just another girl or like they're just a hookup.
I always admire when a guys sweet n a gentelmem and not all pervy. Just be yourself flirt with girls don't try to hard.
be respectful lol idk
