Is it normal for you to distance yourself from people that seem to like you or ask you out after you go through a heartbreak?

I see:)

i do actually. :P but u know that already. :/

Everyone does it

yes its normal. Out of fear to get heartbroken again. Your hurt and starting to learn that life isnt always fair and its the ones closest to you that hurt you the most.

I feel like I do, but hat’s just me. As if I’m not letting other people know I still exist is like the hardest thing.

Sure, takes you a while to recover..Remember: This too will pass….

Yes it’s definitely normal. It’s a good time to think about things through and heal.

Yes - it is perfectly normal and perfectly understandable. You where in love and it takes time for that burdon to ease. But i can assure you, it will ease eventually. Distancing yourself is simply a coping strategy that you have, without it you would feel immensley suffocated.

Have you considered telling those people that ask you out, that you need time to yourself so that you can heal? They will give you that space you need, but at the same time be there for you.

I know where your coming from. When i went through a tough breakup , i was so scared to try a new relationship because i was scared of another heartbreak. Eventually , you’ll find another special someone that will make you happier than you were before and hopefully it lasts awhile. Just dont distant yourself too long.

Definitely. I distanced myself from guys and I kind of hated them for a while. I didn’t even think about dating again until about two years later when I was a senior in high school. Still with him two years later :) Before I would wish that he asked me out earlier, but I realized we both fell into each other’s lives at the perfect time because we both needed to heal and grow.

Definitely. I distanced myself from guys and I kind of hated them for a while. I didn’t even think about dating again until about two years later when I was a senior in high school. My current boyfriend asked me out… And Im still with him two years later :) Before I would wish that he asked me out earlier, but I realized we both fell into each other’s lives at the perfect time because we both needed to heal and grow.

Absolutely. I think you’re just afraid of being hurt..everyone feels that way at some point!