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i agree i rtemember when i was overweight like horribly overweight i felt always down and for some reason it brought others down....everything is made up of energy and we give that off.......now i am sure of attraction has some to do with it but i could not tell you how many beautiful wemon i have the chance to be with but there personaility and actions made them ugly literally ugly to me....i find having a smile always seems to work....feel hot look hot you got it....trust me here is how you make friends fast.........by doing 1 random act of kindness a day for someone.....you will be shocked...compliment people push them for their dreams and goals get on them about their future show that you care and if you do that you will come back and say you were right good luck
Being yourself helps you to become a popular person. Most people would rather become friends with those whose confident. Why would you wanna be around someone who complains all day? If you can have a good time around people and not make them feel uncomfortable in anyway, other people are gunna see that and they will approach you. And mainly attractive people make friends easier because they know the steps to TAKING CARE OF THEIR BODY. They actually look after themselves. And people like that. If you take the time to dress appropriately and always have a smile on your face, people are gunna think you're a nice person and they will approach you. They will think you're a decent person which helps you to get more friends :) Its all about loyalty as well.
Often they seem to be attractive just because they make do friends. They make friends because they are funny and good company and nice to be with, not because they look "attractive".
Just look at people like Woody Allen; Frankie Boyle; Robin Williams; and Rowan Atkinson; - they don't look attractive.
Or how about the Women? Jo Brand; Sandra Bernhard; Dawn French; and Tracey Ullman.
They weren't exactly at the front of the queue when they were handing out the boobs and faces either.
You SEEM to be attractive when you try to be good company, not when you only LOOK "attractive".
-- Best wishes - Majikthise ( writing from near the back of the queue ).
Because in generally they are more confident. People who get complimented and told that they are beautiful all day start to feel beautiful and that gives them confidence which helps them when approaching people and making friends. Also have you noticed how you might see someone as being slightly overweight, yet still find them strangely attractive? That is generally also because they have confidence.
Its a lot to do with the way people think subconsciously, for example when a person thinks someone is attractive they automatically assume that all there other traits will be positive and want to be friends with that person. However, a lot of the time people get let down when they try to be friends with attractive people because there personality does not live up to expectations.
idk ppl tell me im beautiful all the time or call me hey pretty or somethin.but im not that confident. anyways i think ppl are just kissing up. im not tryin to sound conceited or anything but that the feeling i get sometimes. at least from my point of view. i think ppl just kiss up to pretty ppl. they just use u.
Tell you the truth maybe because there so confident with thenselves and probably dont care if someone doesnt like them or not....the ones who have alot of friends arent afriad of making friends... bt im really not on the confident side that much so that i could be wrong... lol hope i help
Tell you the truth maybe because there so confident with thenselves and probably dont care if someone doesnt like them or not....the ones who have alot of friends arent afriad of making friends... bt im really not on the confident side that much so that i could be wrong... lol hope i help
not trying to be mean, but as mother nature, you're not attracted to "ugly" people so you won't hang around them take a look at yur friends..... are any of them "ugly" ??
I think ur opinion is very true, that what my better looking friends say, they think people want to "be thr friends" just to be seen with them
Well honestly my friends aren't to attractive cuz I don't go for looks I go by what the person is like on the inside
because sometimes pple judge others on looks when sometime even the best looking pple are total jerks
because no one wants ugly friends.
Because people are judgemental
