how do i make a move without coming out too slutty or desperate ?

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give him time tell him u may like him in a different way that he likes u then give him signs saying u want him to kiss u like when u tlk get a lil closer then usual. and he’ll kiss u!!

start out by asking him out on a date, if hes very shy he might not every work up the courage to do it, so you need to go after what you want. and dating is the first step to being in a relationship. if he says yes then hes obiously interested. if he says no you have your answer right there and can move on looking for soemone else who might be interested in you. once your in a relationship, have been on a date or two and have talked and got to know more about each other and each others interests, what you have in common, ect. then you can worry about kissing! or if youd like to do it now, maybe flirt with him a little, suggest that youd like to be in a relationship with him and go on a date (and tell him you like him) and lean in to kiss him

Yes,you should spend some time with him alone first,smile and ask him out.compliment him and then you can both start talking.There is nothing wrong if you make the first move.But still i will suggest to talk to him more and go on dates,and then you can kiss him.This way you would be pretty sure that you want a relationship and want to kiss him also.Dont show that you are very excited about everything,taking things slowly is only the way.

When you are alone talk with him about where he wants to go with this e.g. a relationship? If he wants to start a relationship, you can make a move such as kissing him, just make sure he’s into it.

jus be you… and if you are worried about that then wait for him to kiss you

jaz: i like your comment , nice work:-)

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smile when he walks by and you walk by but only slightly not too much and look him in the eyes and don’t forget to be close to him and touch him (not like that) but be the first one to make a move to hug him and make it last longer than usual if you feel comfortable and maybe he will make the first move

Well a girl has every right to do what she wants with her body without being “slutty”. Don’t make a HUGE move. But I say make whatever move you want. It won’t make you a slut

pretty much how i was going to say it. just go with the flow and hint to him. you will know how to hint to him when the moment comes

This is what I did. Tell him you don’t want him to think wrong of you. Tell him you don’t want him to think you hold hands with any other guy. And if he likes you enough as he claims he will ask you out. It’s a huge hint for him.