Look saying we have to talk worrys the guy just tell him hey look im not ready for sex yet i want to wait tll im married ...... and if he says its bull* then dump his butt cuz all he wants is sex from you and he wont respect you now or if you do have sex with him he still wont respect you... if he tells the school you go to then you'll be known as well a not so nice word ............. if he understands and still wants to be with you thats great .... he still wants some tho and he might not wait forever ... but at least you know he respects your dicision and if he's at all like me he'll come out and tell you he's not ready either.... tht is if your the same age and/or he's a virgin too..... if he says this tht just means he really is but he'll wait for you OR he really does want to wait and was just worried about becoming a man or becoming popular at school once you tell him he shouldnt care about popularity .. he has you!!!
if it has to be said it'll find a way to be said. just say... "we have to talk." then just say whats on your mind, ie; "I think we should wait til we're married before we have sex." and ask for his honest response.
Honesty is key. Have a conversation about your reasons on not wanting to have sex until you are ready. If he listens then great, if he does not. Then you have to re-consider your relationship with this guy.
You just have to be honest with him and tell him what you feel is right. If he loves and repects you he will understand and wait. If he doesnt want to then hes not the guy for you.
i think a good time to do it when your beyond making out in the relationship and he tells you he wants to have sex and then thats your open opprtunity to tell him how you feel
send him a letter its always eaiser if u cant tell him in person
just let him that your not ready
it's ok, I re-categorized it.
oops wait wrong spot lolz