Why can't I be in love more than 10 days?

Your not in love if it doesn’t last more then 10 days, thats more like infactuation.

oh dang we both thought the same thing :) Were totally right haha great minds think alike!!

lol creeeeeepyyy ;P

It’s not lust at all… I can’t explain it… f.e. you meet the perfect boy,he looks very good, he is smart and all that, and suddenly,after he starts to fall for you, you lose your interest. :
that’s what is happening to me over and over….

That’s not love.

ok, I’ll reform the question- what should i do to stay interested in someone more than a week-two?

it sounds like you just like what you see and hear, but maybe when you get to know them more, or see how many other guys there are out there, you loose intrest. theres nothing you can do to force yourself to be with soemone. it can only happen when you meet the right guy, when he comes along youll be interested and you wont need to try or act like you are, you just will be. i would suggest dont go out with all the guys you see, get to know them first, become good freinds and then date, that way by then youll have a good idea of if you could last in a relationship with them

it seems like you enjoy the thrill of the game and the fight to get with someone, and when you realise you have them, the thrill is gone. but remember, love is a serious word and shouldn’t be taken lightly. it’s more than likely infatuation or a sexual attraction to someone rather than ‘love’

Very good answer. I’d like to add to that. It might be you like the sensation, which is different than the thrill of the game. The sensation or vibration you get when someone is new. I’d be concerned about having to play that game, because you might get a reputation of no loyalties. That will eventually affect your future in all areas of life. If I was an employer, for example and knew you history, I would think twice before hiring you. Some people have the same thrill with work. When the thrill is gone they look for another job. Working on creating a relationship, that takes work. Maybe the reason you loose interests is you don’t know how to play another game with the one you have, so get bored (the thrill goes) and you look for another thrill. Bordom is a sign of not looking for another game with what you already have. If you keep going the way you do, eventually that game will become boring and then what will you do. I can see you not having anyone, because that thrill will no longer be there. Look for value in the long run. Do you want a long lasting relationship. Most people do, but don’t know how to do it. It takes work. Anything of value does take work. Maybe the person you have a thrill with, you have no value in him other than the thrill.

‘like’ someone for more than what you see on the outside. get to know them, see how you feel then. no one says you need to be in a relationship, just take your sweet time

Simple answer. You’re not ready for a relationship. Keep having fun, I’m sure you’re young, your eggs are getting old anytime soon. You’ll be glad you didn’t settle down and had fun in your 20’s.

i agreee… i think i love someone and then after a while i think… he/she aint right and then get stuck :/ x

i agreee… i think i love someone and then after a while i think… he/she aint right and then get stuck :/ x

ohh please for god sake, if your only in love for 10 days , news check!! its not love , sorry but thats the truth! .. its just a false illusion of love , dont fall in love so easy , or else they will play you like a guitar … take it slowly bulid up a relationship a certain amount of trust and ask yourself is love really what your looking for right now ?? dont commit unless your sure , it could get messy xxxx