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Spicing things up in the bedroom is great, whether you've been together for a few months or a few decades. Having an adventurous evening together can strengthen the bond of your relationship and help bring back memories of when you first got together and sparks flew. In this article, we give you seven ideas that will help you have a night you won't soon forget.
Any easy way to spice things up and bring some novelty to your sex life is trying new positions. It's easy to get in a rut, performing the same key moves over and over again. While this is usually because these moves work well, it can make one feel almost bored with their partner.
If you're usually all about missionary, try something new like having the man sit in a chair while the woman straddles him. Or, if you love to be on top, try reverse cowgirl. The new visual perspective for him will excite him and drive him crazy! Switching things up like this every now and then keeps things fresh and exciting. Buying a book full of sex positions to try can be a good way to get inspiration
Back when 50 Shades of Grey was at peak popularity, interest in BDSM practices surged. You don't have to go all out here if you're not comfortable. Start with something small like a pair of fuzzy handcuffs to lock your lover up with. Another good beginner option is a silky blindfold. Removing the sense of sight heightens the sense of touch, making every caress you make against their skin feel oh so sensual.
It may be taboo to talk about, but even straight men enjoy the feeling of getting their prostate stimulated. If you're brave enough, this is a great way to have an adventurous night that he'll absolutely love. The best way to do this is probably with a small toy for beginners or your finger, along with some high quality lube made specifically for anal play. If you're feeling really adventurous, you can even check out something like a strap on!
A massage is just as fun to give as it is to receive. Massages help relieve stress and tension in the body. This reduction in stress helps rev up sex drive and amplify feelings of pleasure.
To make it an extra special occasion, try using massage oil or a massage candle. These are often lightly scented and help add to the mood.
Playing pretend is a fun way to inject some excitement back into your relationship. A favorite is for you and your significant other to both drive to the bar separately and pretend to be complete strangers. Maybe dress up completely different than you normally do to further the fantasy. Have fun taking each other home!
Many adult stores now offer fun sexually themed board and card games that you and your lover can play together. These get you to think outside the box and try new things that might not otherwise have crossed your mind. Some games are simple like Sexy 6, a dice rolling game that gives you foreplay and position prompts. Others are more complex, like Nooki, an adult board game for two that comes with a blindfold and a do not disturb sign for your bedroom door.
Wearing roleplaying costumes is an easy way to have a night full of adventure. Pretending to be someone else for the night can be an incredibly arousing experience. You can be anyone: from the girl next door to a nurse or police officer. Perhaps he can dress up as a teacher and punish you for not turning in your homework on time?
Interested in buying supplies for your evening of passion and adventure? Erotica Adult Store has a wide range of adult products for everyone, including toys and games made specifically for couples. Visit our website and plan out your ideal sexy date night. We hope you find something to make the night extra memorable!