Home Guides Love & Relationships
In every relationship, there will be times when you have to spend moments apart whether you want to or not. You may worry about how they’ll feel when you’re apart and if they’ll change their mind about you. However, communicating these worries with them will help you feel relaxed and secure in your relationship no matter what. But still the times when you have to leave your man at home while you’re away can feel like an eternity, and you’re probably wondering how you can please him even when you’re not there. If so, keep reading and find out just how you can take care of your man when you’re away.
You might be concerned that your departure will have on your sex life, but with so many toys designed specifically for men to enjoy, you no longer need to worry. Fleshlights are one of the most popular choices for men to use and they can keep him satisfied for you while you’re not there. Even if you’re not in the same area, you could get creative and have some spicy video calls where he can make the most of his new gift and you get to enjoy the view. Just because you aren’t around to please him yourself, doesn’t mean you can’t be involved. So, don’t be afraid to experiment with new toys and ways of getting intimate and you’ll definitely be able to keep your man happy.
You don’t have to rely on sexual intimacy either to take care of your partner. Why not get extra romantic and hide little love notes around the house for them to find. That way they’ll know you’re always thinking of them, and they get to see a token of your love even when you’re not there. You could even create a treasure hunt for them, leading them to little surprises that show your appreciation of them. You could lead them to all the places you love going to together, your favourite coffee shop, the pub where you met etc. All the memories of you two will come flooding back to him and help him feel like you’re close by even when you’re apart.
Now, not to sound old fashioned, but you could prepare his favourite meals for him to eat while you’re away. This isn’t in a way that says women need to cook for their men, but it’s a way of showing him you care and still think about him when you’re not around. He’ll definitely appreciate it too as he’ll get a slice of comfort and be able to feel the love that went into cooking it. You could easily whip up a few dishes and pop them in the freezer for him so that when he feels lonely or is missing dinner with you, he can simply grab something that you’ve prepared just for him. Being able to enjoy his favourite meal that’s been cooked by his favourite lady will most definitely put a smile on his face!
If you normally say good morning and good night to each other every day, don’t let this little routine slip while you’re away. Even if it’s a simple text wishing him a good morning can help him wake up with a smile on his face. Saying a cute good night to each other every night will also help him to feel close to you. Hearing about each other’s days and comforting each other through any stress you may have had will ensure that your man feels supported even if you’re not right there beside him. So, don’t let time pass you by while you’re away and be sure to speak to each other when you can. You don’t need to wait until you’re together to discuss everything that happened while you were apart. He's probably curious how you’ve been and how you’re day’s been going, so indulge him with a cosy bedtime chat each night.
Even though you’re apart, you can still treat your partner to a few nice surprises. For example, if you know he’s spending the evening at home and can’t be bothered to cook, secretly order him his favourite take out. Similarly, you could ask him to head to the local coffee shop and enjoy a coffee on you. A lot of shops nowadays let you order ahead, so you could treat him to his favourite cup of joe even when you’re miles and miles apart. You don’t have to spend loads of money to show that you care, but little things like this can demonstrate your love for him.
Why not leave little hints of you around the house for him to discover? You could hide some of your lingerie that he loves you in somewhere he wouldn’t expect. So, when he finds it, he’ll instantly think of you. You could also spray your perfume onto his pillow so he can fill his dreams with the scent of you as well. Leaving reminders of you about the place will help him to feel like you’re still around and give him the sense that you’ll always be there for him no matter what.
Taking care of your man isn’t all about sex and food but acts of love can come in all different forms that include these two as well. Things like treating him to his favourite dinner that you’ve prepared ahead of time or telling him you love him before heading off to sleep can make all the difference. Just because men can come across as being totally fine when you’ve left, inside they’re probably missing you like crazy. So, don’t rely on a few texts here and there if you’re trying to show your love while apart. Spend some time planning how you can make him feel appreciated and loved while you’re away, and you’ll definitely get a very warm welcome home!
