So you’re still in love with your ex and wanna make him want you back as bad? Well, it’s not impossible! Many a times, ego and misunderstandings end up being the root cause for a breakup, and when we look back, we end up realising how stupid it was to let go. However, it’s never too late! You can still opt to make your ex want you back desperately with a tiny bit of guidance and immense amount of confidence. Here, we bring you a few tips that will help you understand yourself and how you can make your ex want you back along the journey-
This is the first and the most important thing to do. Think thrice! Do you really want them back? Or are you just afraid of living your life without them? Sometimes, it takes massive self-control and a lot of energy to be able to move on, and that is completely normal! Letting go and moving on in your own life doesn’t happen in seconds! It takes time. However, if you still believe that the two of you were meant to be, you can always opt on giving them a second chance.
Adopt the saying, “fake it till you make it” and watch patiently as the ball rolls back into your court. It might not be as easy, but you will have to pretend to be happy to show your ex that you’re doing just fine without them. It will help by making them envious, and extremely curious to know more about you and your whereabouts!
Sometimes, the best way to make yourself seem desirable is to stay cheerful and appreciate all that you have. You’ve crossed milestones to reach where you are at the moment, so why not be grateful and let fate work its way out eventually? Acknowledge everything around you, treasure your memories and always, ALWAYS value yourself first.
Being in a relationship, you may have come across the various factors that could act as a trigger button for your ex. Try and make use of those specific details that have higher chances of bothering them! If your ex loved watching the sunset with you, watch more sunsets ALONE or with someone else. If your ex didn’t like it when you hung out with a certain person, spend time with him/her often. Be it a negative factor or a positive factor, don’t hesitate to take full advantage of both!
Contacting your ex will only boost their ego and make you seem like a desperate, heartbroken fool. Avoid all contacts possible and make it seem like you’re living your life to the fullest WITHOUT them. Give them the notion that you do NOT need them to remain happy and that you’re doing just fine. This will make your ex question themselves and flood sentiments instantly.
Stalking your ex is a very natural thing to do after a breakup. However, it is strongly advisable to be as careful as possible and not get caught red handed. Feel free to keep an eye on them and there whereabouts but remain as anonymous as possible. Refrain from discussing about your ex with mutual friends to make it seem like you don’t care about them anymore and it doesn’t really interest you either. This is likely to make it seem like you have moved on happily and is bound to set off the resentment alarm in your ex as soon as they hear the bad news!
There are a number of ways to make your ex jealous of you and your life. You can go about posting lively stories on social media, or spend your time hanging out with the people they despised! Do all it takes to make them regret letting go. Jealousy is one of the strongest ways to get your ex back in no time!
Show them that it no longer bothers you and that you’ve matured yourself into not holding any unnecessary grudges. Keep your calm and do NOT talk about them or how angry you are. Just like a Chinese philosopher once said, silence is a source of great strength.
Exploring and experimenting with the plans that the two of you had made within your relationship TOGETHER is gonna get them furiously envious. Show them that you are capable of executing those plans WITHOUT them and that the breakup hasn’t affected you as much. Nothing is scarier than watching someone happy and content in life.
Contacting your mutual friends or your ex’s friends will only make them suspicious of your actions. It will seem like you are still interested in your ex’s way of life and what they’re up to, which isn’t a great sign. All of this will do you no good as it works by boosting their ego and pride making you seem petty and despairing.