Frustrated much? It happens! You aren’t entitled to fall equally for somebody who has developed feelings for you. You may feel bad, guilty rather, ‘cuz you think you’re leading him on just by being around him. At times, we don’t feel for somebody as much as they do for us and that is completely normal. You can either choose to keep him around you as “just a friend”, which is kind of tough, or get rid of him completely. So, today we bring you a quick guide to making him fall “out” of love with you as compassionately as possible-
Decreasing the amount of time you spend talking to him or being around him is gonna help him get used to your absence. He’ll get signs over time and will stop loving you eventually.
Speaking about your ex often, good or bad, is going to make him feel like you’re still not over that guy and that you need more time. He’ll get annoyed by the fact that you’re madly hung up over your past giving you an upper hand at getting rid of him.
Be selfish! Each time you choose yourself over him, you’re making it evident that his presence isn’t as crucial as he thinks it is. Doing this over and over in various situations will eventually push him away and successfully get you to your goal.
Boys absolutely hate it when we get mad. It annoys them to the core making them almost regret falling in love with you! Take advantage of this and get mad over the tiniest of things throwing a massive tantrum. This trick is bound to blow his fuse and create a distance within no time!
Praising him, appreciating his efforts and complimenting him from time to time is only gonna strengthen his attachment making him fall “IN” love harder than ever. Hence, it is strongly advisable to avoid doing so and taunt him instead! And if you cannot pull off any negatives, then simply stay silent.
Bragging about yourself, your lifestyle, your achievements, etc is definitely gonna piss him off! Blow your own trumpet and show off every chance you get. This is perhaps the quickest way to drive away anybody, as quick as a few days!
Pull out pieces of evidence of his attachment being nothing more than immature attraction. Prove to him that his love isn’t real, but rather temporary. This will work by making him feel extremely guilty and he’ll refrain from leading you on, which of-course will work in your favour!
Watch out for those situations where you have to choose between him and something else. Whenever a point like this arises, do NOT take his side and casually wave it off. However, do avoid going against his decisions all the time for that will make him suspicious of you and what you’re up to.