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So, you’ve been having a soft spot for someone else who isn’t your partner? Oh no, it is no sin! Love is a matter of hearts which you have absolutely no control over. Falling for someone else when you’re already dating your partner is pretty normal, especially if your relationship isn’t in its best form. Think twice before making a certain move, for you can end up unintentionally breaking two hearts at once! To help you out, we bring you a little guide to getting on if you’re already in a relationship but fancy someone else -
And don’t have such thoughts either. As simple as it sounds, it’s gonna end up causing you a lot of trouble. So, think before taking such a step. You don’t wanna regret any of your actions in the future, do you?
You need to sit down and take some time to yourself as you think about what you really want. Ponder upon these thoughts and analyse whether your crush happens to be another one of those temporary infatuations which are bound to fade away, or is it something else! Think about whether it is worth risking your current relationship! Think thrice, think hard.
If you get any sign, even if it’s a very little sign, telling you that this is another infatuation then do focus on your current relationship. Think about all the ways you can strengthen the bond with your partner and sustain your relationship.
Avoid taking any drastic steps that you could end up regretting in the near future. It is rather advisable to go with the flow and allow the crush to fade away on its own. You can’t crush on a person forever unless you’re madly in love with them. But of course, that is a different story in itself!
Avoid leading your crush and taking unnecessary steps that could eventually develop their feelings for you. If you know you aren’t gonna be with them, then do NOT make any major move that could affect them.
Do not fantasise about your crush and instead, replace your crush with your partner. Yes, daydream about your partner! This will not only help you maintain your relationship but will also help in making your bond romantic and super cute!
Avoid talking about your crush to your partner in a way that they end up suspecting you. Take it lightly and laugh it off, in case any suspicions arise.
Spending quality time with your partner will help you understand what you really want. It will help you in taking the right step. Don’t hesitate to give your partner your time and your attention. This will only work in your favour.
If you think that you can share almost anything with your partner, without getting them mad, then do consider talking with them about what you really feel and what’s going on. This will help them guide you into making a witty move for the future. Similarly, do consider talking to your crush if he/she is close to you. Get their viewpoints and make a reasonable decision.