Fights and arguments are the most basic foundations of any relationship. No, they do not always have to contribute to a breakup but are rather considered healthy and extremely important to help you grow and become a better person in your relationship. It’s no doubt that girlfriends are super sensitive, especially when it comes to emotional attachment. They can be crazy and impossible at times, yet, the right amount of love will surely bring her back to normal. An angry girlfriend is very common these days, and calming her down is as simple as pissing her off! So here, we bring you a quick guide to carefully deal with your fragile package (an angry girlfriend) -
One of the biggest mistakes that you could do while your girl is burning with anger is to try and defend yourself. That’s like adding fuel to the fire. It’ll make her angrier! Instead of trying to protect yourself from the blame, hear her out patiently. Pay attention to the actual reason that’s pissing her off and try to resolve the issue instead of shielding yourself.
You cannot avoid the issue for a long time! Instead, try to address the concerns. Don’t walk away or hide from the situation! That’s just gonna piss her off even more and make her suspicious. Be brave, and tackle the problem without any fear! You got this!
It is very easy to lose your calm and backfire with rage. However, we often tend to regret the decisions we made in anger. It is very important to stay sane and conscious of your words during an argument. Don’t get provoked and stay as calm as possible to avoid making things worse!
It is a basic human nature to speak more than to listen, and that’s the major cause for most of our troubles. It is advisable to listen to your girl and understand her point of view before putting forward your thoughts, especially if she’s angry. Always remember, a little misunderstanding like this could end up ruining one of your strongest connections.
Everyone needs their own time to calm themselves down, and so does your girlfriend. Don’t hesitate to give her some time and space to think through. This could also help her examine the situation and maybe even realise that this was all nothing but a simple misunderstanding!
Venting out is the most effective technique proven to release stress and reduce the burden on your mind. Letting your girl vent out, without worrying about the aftermath will definitely calm her down and have her trust you again. Getting out her emotions will also make her feel better and will help you talk things out with her, resolving the issue!
Unless you want to make things worse than they already are. One should always be in control of his words and his body language to avoid a chaotic situation. Be it with your girlfriend, or any other person in the world, violence (physical, verbal or emotional) is never the answer.
All of these steps are bound of to go down the drain if you don’t come up with an affective solution to the problem. Understand her, realise what the real issue is, apologise if you have to, and work upon making your bond stronger. Always remember, fights and arguments are the most common problems faced in a healthy relationship, and so, you should always be prepared to face the challenge fearlessly!
Remind her that the argument will not change your feelings towards her. This will work by calming her down a little and suppressing her anger. Of course, this doesn’t mean that you ignore what she has to say and tell her how much she means to you! Let her talk, hear her out and once things are sorted out, then remind her of the value she holds in your life.
Most people assume that saying a simple “sorry” will sort out the issue. Yes, it will, but only if you really mean your sorry! And the only way to actually mean your apology is by understanding the root of the problem and where you went wrong so as to avoid it as much as you can in the near future.