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The year 2020 has seen a massive rise in sexting between couples all over the world. Everybody has a distinct style and approach to sexting their partners. While some people are into dirty texts, some enjoy texts along with pictures to add a little spice! As exciting as it may sound, sexting can also turn into an utter disaster with total regrets if not done the right way! Nobody would want to end up embarrassed, especially while they sext, do they? So, today we bring you a quick guide to help you sext your lover the right way and finesse this art in no time-
The art of sexting is all about keeping the flow consistent throughout. You cannot go on and off in between as this will mess up your conversation and make it less exciting. Stick to one app and do NOT get distracted by other things around you.
Words are extremely powerful and you need to make good use of your words for them to work their magic. Elaborate on your words when you’re sexting with your partner. Tell them in detail about what you want them to do, how they make you feel, etc to keep your texts lively and spiced up!
Tease your partner with pictures or simply with your words! You can also send them voice notes during your conversation sounding as seductive as possible to turn them on within seconds.
Avoid talking about a third person while sexting with your partner. You’re gonna end up running each other’s mood by involving anyone else and hence, think and talk only about the two of you. Let your partner know every once in a while of the value they hold in your life and how badly you want them and only them!
If you aren’t turned on, your sexts aren’t gonna go anywhere. They’re gonna sound extremely bland and uninteresting. Always try getting yourself in the mood before proceeding ahead. This way, your talks will seem super hot and arousing.
Use this opportunity to explore your fantasies through texts. Be kinky and make use of your imagination to create exciting sensations. Talk about the things that you’ve always wanted to do with your partner. Explore and experiment for new experiences!
A good way to tease your partner is to send them pics of you with your toys or just the toy in itself. Guys are thrilled when they see your toys and are easily aroused too!
Show your partner that you’re craving for their texts, for their pictures, for them! Be anxious and show eagerness throughout the conversations. Ask them questions and show a willingness to want to know more.
Complimenting your partner is one of the best ways to keep a conversation going, even while you sext! Let them know how amazing they make you feel. Let them know how you spend hours fantasising about them. Let them know what they mean to you!