Why is my girlfriend doing those things?

please help me… my girlfriend’s like smoking.. and she told me that.. and its like I got hurt by it… some said I dont need to be but still.. I got hurt and then I cried and hit myself on the face hard like lotsa times.. and she saw it on the webcam (we’re in a long distant relationship now) and she promised me not to do it again.. but still.. why is she into those things? and why does she want to to do those tings??

Answer #1

Maybe sence your in a long distance then she might have found new friends and they might make her do those things. If you truly love her you will tell her that you cant bare to watch her hurt herself like that and tell her to stop for you and if she loves you she will. Trust her. And dont hit youself in the face. :)

Answer #2

she’s always a trouble maker.. she always win over me.. but I dont mind.. I do love her.. I truely do.. but it just hruts me that she’s doing those tings.. I guess sum people will laugh at me .. but stil… I dunno wht to say anm… D;

Answer #3

because she likes smoking… if it bothers you and care about her tell her to stop, and if she cares for you she will.

Answer #4

because shes just idono.. being herself. has she always been like.. a trouble maker.. err something? shes just trying new things and if she knows its hurting you she will stop eventually probably. talk to her about it. and dont hurt yourself because she’s doing it. just talk to her. good luck :D

Answer #5

Ok. How long has she been smoking? It’s not easy to convince an addict to stop smoking. Tell her to stop because it’s bad for her. Just open up and tell her how you feel. Talk to her about the consequences of those actions. All in all help her to understand WHY it’s bad and HY it makes you upset.

She may have just wanted to try something new out. It could also have been peer pressure. It could just be that she’s having a ‘teenage phase’ where she becomes rebellious. If you want her to stop smoking support her. Let her know that you’ll always be there for her.

She always wins you over? When you’re telling her remember that YOU are RIGHT and what she is doing is WRONG. That might help. Also remember that she’s hurting herself and you want to stop her from doing that. This will encourage you not to give up.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

CM x

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