How do I stop being so sensitive and over-emotional?

Are you maybe overly stressed? That makes me overly emotional and I’m usually not emotional at all. Try and find out why you get upset so easily, maybe something happened recently which makes you feel tense and emotional and you need to deal with it.

it mostly is from relationship stuff. But I can’t stay away from it, we are in a long term relationship, but it is stressing at the same time, but I love him.

we are people so we can feel and get emotional many times. and specially when you are in the teen zone i used to be like a kid very very full of emotions and sensitive and always crying but reaching the 20 and 21 now am having less in the drama life i had. not to mention that if u wanna laugh u have to cry things must be balanced :)

I cant agree with the whole not to be a “cold b!tch”, because for some guys that is a major turn on! No all guys like the squishy girl girls whom are only into one thing emotional bliss. Actually most guys find that a major turn off!

You are stressed in your life, agreed with irene K here, find out what seems to be causing that stress to avoid the drama… If you are too busy at work or school then have your guy understand that now is not the best time to try to have an argument because it will only cause more drama & might get so bad that you are forced to spend some time apart. That isnt such a bad thing in this situation…not a break, or a break up, just some time to finish what it is you are doing so you can get what ever it is that is stressing you out long enough to get over it & move on! Once it is gone, you can be back to your normal self & get back on track with the bf! he has to realize that you just need to deal with what ever it is that is stressing you out so you can focus on being back to your old you & enjoy each other’s company rather then pick fights back & forth.

If he cant understand that you are having a rough time, and need some time to deal with the stress then he clearly doesnt care about how you feel. That is something you need to think about when & if the time comes to that.

Hope this was helpful. good luck.

i knew it was relationship drama, ive been in similar shoes, it always best to show all your emotions and not hold anything back cuz most people cant read yur emotions and if u just wore them on yur sleeve it could put everything to rest. for me it was always a ego thing so i hide everything so be bold and fearless

just remember that if someone says something mean, that its their insecurities and they are trying to make themselves feel better by putting someone else down.

But it always seems to lead to more fights. And then half of it is my paranoia also.