like describe your pain. I really want to know. lol. some people say it hurts a little because they walked before having it.
-Your pushing something the size of a watermelon out of something the size of a pea. -You are most likely going to tear, sometimes from front to back. -You get stitches. -You get poked in the back for the epidural -The epidural usually just takes the contractions away not the pressure -The pressure is a whole different kind of pain, imagine all your intestines, trying to escape from your vagina. -The contrations are like period cramps times a million. -The nurses are coming in every 30 seconds, to stick their fingers in you to check for dialation, give you a catheter to drain the pee out of you, and to poke around down there. -There the ring of fire, as they call it when the baby's head crowns, it really does feel like your vagina is on fire and ripping! - There is a 90 percent chance that you will take a crap while pushing your baby out. Almost all women do. -Pushing the baby out can take anywhere from 15 mintues to several hours of agonizing pain. -No food or drinks the entire time you are in labor - just ice chips. -Then afterwards, you have the fun adventure of bleeding for up to 6 weeks. The first time you get up out of the hospital bed after giving birth, blood and fluid gushes from your vagina all over the floor. -You'll most likely pass blood clots after giving birth too. If you dont get to the bathroom fast enough, they can fall down your pantsleg. -Dont forget, no tampons! Only big nasty pads for the next 6 weeks! -Your breast are going to be engorged and full of milk for a while. While they are they will be extremely painful to any kind of touch, you will also leak milk 24-7 all over the place and have to wear special pads in your bra's.
That doesn't even include the pregnancy -the swollen body parts that ache -the constipation -the hemmroids -the aching breast -the not being able to get up of the sofa by yourself -the strechmarks -the morning (allday) sickness -the kicks the baby gives to your ribs -the frequent urination -the constant pap smears -the blood work
mandyloo, havent you got anything positive to say about pregnancy like you get a goregous baby at the end of it, nearly every woman goes thru it and still has more children, the bonding and love for the child, yeah it hurts but no pain no gain yeah? there is all that pain relief out there dont let one person put you all off having children. she obviously had a bad experience. the more you stand the bette the birth and your only actually pushing for about half and hour as the most pain is in the contractions which is where the baby is 'engaging into place' ready for birth and contractions is the longest time throughout your pregnancy, hope this helps a little girlies, oh and by the way if you dont want a baby then get you partners to strap it up simples !!! xxx
Describe the pain? Think about something inside of you ripping your insides apart and then multiply the pain by about a million. It feels like your body is trying to push everything out through your vagina. Walking normally doesn't take away the pain but it does (sometimes) make your labor go faster. You will never feel anything like it again...I have 3 children that were all natural births (no pain medication) and I can't even describe (accurately) what it feels like. Just know that it is the worst thing you will ever feel.
My oldest son is 7 and I still remember exactly what it felt like to be in labor with him, it is something that you will never forget.
its actually not as bad as people up there say it is.. Yes, it hurts like nothing you have ever felt, but its all worth it. You create another person, Women have been pushing out babies for millions of years, and I think if it were to bad they would have stopped. It burns and there is a lot of pressure,. I have 4 kids and let me tell you, it's not as bad as you would actually think, some women are different though. But you will feel better after its out, just remember that. :]
Just the truth
I actually still left a lot of stuff out though. I just had my son 4 months ago, I'm just explaining what it's like.
The one person was right, a baby is worth it and precious, but you DO not forget about the birth and the pain. Whoever says that is ridiculous and has not had a child.
Hey I am only in my 4th month of pregnancy and now that I read that I'm scared but almy other friends didnt make it ou to b that bad lol it is kinda of scarey now that I think of it is there a size difference in your va-j-j when your 17?
It hurts a lot but its worth it after you see what you have created a beatiful new young life a baby
Oh man- that is almost enough to put me off wanting children of my own!
Ok...I don't want kids anymore after reading all this...ever!
lol. I get you lex icon. lol
oh my god.!!!
