Does age really matter?

I met this guy last year. We started talking, and hanging out. He was surprised when he found out how old I am in the beginning, but now he’s pretty much cool with it. I’m 20, and he’s 31. We have things in common like movies, surfing, music, and stuff like that. He’s admitted that he wants to be more than just friends, but only if I’m okay with it. It’s been almost a year and a half, and I’m totally falling for him!! I’m curious to see what everyone thinks of our 11 year age difference.

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Answer #1

Its only four years! Its not that big a deal and we have a lot in common which is why the relationship works so well

Answer #2

Age doesnt matter when 2 people are adults. When one is a minor, and one is an adult like the above, you have to wonder what an adult would have in common with someone who is still in high school!

Answer #3

If you’e 20 and he’s 31, that shouldn’t be a problem. It’s not like you’re underage and he’s in his late 20’s or anything. I think it’s fine.

Answer #4

I don’t think age matters at all. In fact you’re lucky. I’m 15 and have a 19 yr old boyfriend which so many people tell me is wrong but you can’t help who you fall for

Answer #5

GIRL IT DONT MATTER U BOTH ARE OF AGE IF U LIKE HIM AND HE LIKES U I SAY GO FOR IT

Answer #6

I am a man, and e.g. for me the 11-12 y difference is the ideal.

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