why have sex so young?

I have no idea. a girl in my grade, who was probably 12 or 13 at the time. had sex. I dont know what the point of having sex so young is. its sad to think that when I am an adult, people will be having sex at like 9 or 10. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months, we talked about sex. I am 15 he is 16. and we are waiting until we are atleast 18 and we want to be in love with the person when we are ready.

FIRST OF ALL I GIVE YOU a lot OF RESPECT FOR STANDING UP TO THE PLATE AND NOT DOING WHAT EVERYONE ELSE DOES. IT TAKES a lot OF GUTS TO TO THAT. SOME PEOPLE JUST ARNT READY TO HAVE SEX SO DONT DO IT IF SOME GUY WANTS YOU TO AND YOU DONT. ONCE YOU LOOSE YOUR VIRGINITY YOU CANT HAVE IT BACK. 90% OF THE TIME THE PEOPLE REGRET DOING IT BECAUSE THEY DIDNT STAY WITH THE PERSON. 4 ME I THINK IT WAS A BIG MISTAKE DOING IT. WHEN YOUR YOUNG YOU DONT REALLY REALIZE WHAT YOU ARE READY FOR, YOU JUST END UP DOING IT BECAUSE YOU WANT THE GUY TO LIKE YOU & THAT DONT CHANGE ANYTHING. JUST REMEMBER WHEN ITS GONE ITS GONE AND YOU HAVE TO LIVE WITH THAT MEMORY THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. Merry Christmas and stay strong.

Ok. I asked a question earlier about sex. That was a question my friend (who’s 18) wanted to know. I’m 17. I have a boyfriend. I’m in the 12th grade and I haven’t had sex. Me and my rents have tlked it over and they bought me a promise ring. Ya I know it seems stupid but it actually helps. I haven’t had sex yet. And I’m not planning to until I’m married. Which is what the ring says. I think that these kids still in elementary and middle and even in low high school grades having sex. I don’t think they should. So if yur under the age of 18 and are havin sex I hope you regret it cause lots of things can happen to u. Cause yur probably not even in love with that person. I hope this helped.

I was 16 when I first had sex & I was in love with my ex boyfriend who was 18 at the time <3 I wouldnt have done it otherwise.

WELL IM 13 AND IM KEEPING MY VIRGINITY AS LONG AS I CAN I ALWAYS REMIND MY SELF THAT I DONT WANT TO BE LIKE EVERYONE ELSE HAVING SEX.

Okay. So. Let my mental opinion commence:

I’ll start by saying this. When I was with my ex (8 years ago) at the time she was 15 and she had a 16 month old daughter. Math: 15 years (minus) a year and a half = 13 years old or so. Young, yes. Lost it when she was 12.

I could have been a “late bloomer” because I waited until I was 17. Damn girl seduced me! lol

Okay, that’s out.

Here’s my feelings about this. From 7th grade until you graduate high school (12-18) is when puberty peaks in most humans. Most teens end up waiting until high school (unbeknownst to them) before they end up losing their virginity. Not until recently has there been a barrage of “tweens” starting to lose their virginity. Reasons are mostly unknown. You ask any of them and they’ll tell you something along the lines of “because it feels good” or “I wanted to see what it was like.” Many excuses. In my own opinion, however, I think it’s more to blame on the curiosity and hormone levels.

In comparison, guys experience a higher hormone level than females (thus why the male sexual peak is about 8 years earlier than the female’s) so they have this odd job of trying to satisfy the hunger of sexual gratification whereas females can wait a little longer.

So the trolling for a bed partner starts. The males pressure the females. “Come on, it’ll feel good!” “You’ll like it!” “It’ll bring us closer together.” Let’s see… BS, BS, and more BS. As every girl reacts differently to stimulation how would a guy know if “it’ll feel good?”

This is why, as you go through high school, there’s so much drama. Guys going from girl to girl with no reguard to the last girl’s feelings. They’re looking for that easy catch that has low self-esteem, low defenses and is easy to persuade. If a guy doesn’t succeed quickly, they normally move on. I’m helping somebody right now with this very issue. Annoying as hell.

In my opinion, when it comes to sex in high school, I say refrain from doing it. High school’s not full of love, it’s full of lust. If you polled a recent graduate you might find a trend in how many of them fully regret or partially regret losing their virginity. “I thought it was special, but it turned out it wasn’t.” “All he did was use me.”

Sex and relationships in high school fogs the mind; gets in the way of studies. If I could go back, I’d have worried less about who to be with and worked more on my grades.

I’m fifteen at the moment and the first time I had sex, I was twelve. I did it because I was in love. I didn’t do it to be like everyone else, I did it because I was curious and I felt like I was ready to further our relationship. Sex is fun and I do enjoy it for sure but I don’t believe that you should downgrade people that have sex. Sex is a part of nature. If you want to wait until you are married or whenever then you should do that. Don’t ever let a man talk you into having sex if you don’t want to. If a guy really cares about you then he will wait until you are ready. Just because you have sex young doesn’t make you a bad person. What is the difference between having sex when you are fifteen and having sex when you are twenty? Nothing at all except for the fact that society THINKS that we are mature enough to make our own decisions when we turn eighteen. I think that whenever we feel we are ready is when we are ready. Just don’t try to go along with society and people around you. Sorry if this didn’t help.

You Got It Right Kid Wait Untill U Think YOUR Ready Don’t Follow The Crowd (Safty Is Key)