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Why am I such an outcast?

Okay so I hardly talk to anyone at school…I don’t talk to my family and I don’t even talk to my teachers. Why? Why am I so quiet? And how the h*ll did I get a boyfriend?!?!?! He and I have talked a couple of times, but not enough for him to like me as much as he does…He’s the only one I really talk to. I don’t get it. I mean I’m very friendly and stuff but I just…I’m antisocial. Yes, I’m a girl and I don’t like to talk, shocker! Haha. But I’m serious…I don’t understand it and neither does he…And Why are the majority of the people I do chat with guys? I have only one really good chick friend..I feel wierd. Like I don’t belong.

Totally different topic now…

Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two weeks. I know he’s not a virgin; I am. I told him I didn’t care. I also told him that I’ve been beaten and forced to do some things I wasn’t ready to do last year. He said he would never ever make me do anything I didn’t want to do. He’s only kissed me. He hasn’t even attempted to makeout with me yet…Am I like…turning him off or something? Am I doing something wrong? I mean when I hug him and kiss him I sometimes tease him and bite his lip. he just laughs and kisses me again, but no tongue. =[ should I tell him that im ready or that im okay with that? I think he’s freaked out about making me doing something I don’t want to do…help?

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Answer #1

It can be hard thing I don’t think labeling yourself anti-social is the case here though. Anti-social is someone that dislikes communication with others, and what your looking for is communication. You might be very introverted and I think you need a confidence boost by some of the people that you know will do that for you. Then again if you find being alone is something that you like then there is nothing wrong with that at all. There is nothing wrong with having more guys friends than girl friends, actually most girls would prefer it. Guys don’t really tend to have as many issues as girls, unless of course that certain guy is dating a girl and decides he wants to cheat on her. Its not very shocking to hear that you don’t feel comfortable talking to people, a lot of people don’t. Your by far very normal.

If you believe in love at first sight then thats what I think your boyfriend has with you, I think your very lucky to have him. Its nice to know that your boyfriend is being safe with you and not pressuring you into doing anything. If you want him to do something then by all means tell him, thats the only way he is going to understand it. Tell him that its okay too tongue kiss you, after all it is something you want to do with him. :)

Answer #2

well you seem like a really nice…girl… but you know what dont worry about not being “popular” or anything… you have that one friend for a reason…and your teacher…try talking to them…and your family too. and about your boyfriend… why dont you make the move?! he will totally be turned on &it will show him you want more. :)

Answer #3

well I wish I could help with the 1st part but I dont really talk to anyone also only people in my family and thats not a lot. so I cant help you there to much

but the boyfriend thing I think I can

next time you are kissing him you make a move and give him alittle tongue showing him that it is ok and to tell the truth sounds like he is a good guy b.c he is playing it safe and taking it slow so he does not hurt you like you have been in the past so your lucky there but just kinda show him when your kissing him that you want to make out or whatever your feeling you want to do he will undeerstand that you want a little more than a kiss just show him you want alittle more and he will give it to you

Answer #4

Well all you got to do is just blend in ! Start talking to people, meet new Friends . I don’t know. Just be Noticeable. Not invisible ! And have fun, On whatever it I syur Doing !(=

Answer #5

k so if you said you only talk to your boyfriend then I have the same problem. Do you not talk because all the girls are mean? Well most of them atleast. So I only talk to my boyfriend too. And maybe your just shy? I can be very shy, but only because im scared to talk in frront of people because they snap at me a lot. I very friendly too, and I still dont talk. (to me its just the best way to stay out of trouble and Drama)

And bout the second problem, just tell him

Answer #6

Omg im just like like that … Im super quite I want to talk but some how I just cant find the cofindce to do so… My anwere is kind of pointless but just know your not alone

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