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What do you do after losing your very last friend.

The question above says it all mostly…

Over the course of three years, I pretty much lost every single friend, new and old, that I had.

Just yesterday, I figured out that I had lost my last friend, whom I was desprestally(spl) trying to hold onto. I tried really hard, helping her with her baby boy by feeding him and buying him food, helping her do laundry.

She didnt really say we were no longer friends. But… It’s been awhile since we’ve hung out. She never txt’s me in the morning with a “good morning!!!” like she use too… When I try to get her to talk. It’s always short reply’s.

She never calls me late in the night anymore like she use too. She use too cause for somereason, hearing someone’s voice makes her fall asleep, so she’d call me and I’d just talk about this and that, and eventually she’d fall asleep…

Everything… Just stopped. And I’m assuming its because of a new boyfriend, cause everything stopped the day after she had gone out with this guy.

I dont know what to do anymore… I have one friend left which is my bestfriendforever… And now I’m terrifed I’ll probably lose her too. Which I’ probably will judging from the fact that I lost all my other friends…

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Answer #1

Friends come and go. You’ve got to accept that they have their own lives and that they won’t always be as attentive BUT this doesn’t mean they don’t appreciate you or love you. Instead of wanting your friends to be a certain way why not accept them for what they can give you? Obviously, your friend is concentrating on building a new relationship and this is taking up a lot of her time now. Though this doesn’t mean you can’t hang out every once in a while. She’ll tire of her new relationship and want a good friend to talk too when things get rough. Don’t give up on friendships just because they change! Also, have you ever thought of making new friends that are more like you? Why not try to meet single people out there that like to do stuff that you like to do? Joining a club, or finding a social activity can really help to meet new people and enlarge your social network. The important thing is not to be too needy and give people space as well as create your own interesting life. Get out there and have fun!

Answer #2

You dont know me very well apparently. nice try though.

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