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How do I tell my boyfriend I want both of us to be tested?

Me and my boyfriend both want to have sexual intercourse. We’ve been together for 7months and we haven’t done a thing yet! But…im scared to tell him that I want both f us to be tested before we have sex. And I know that he’s going to be offended and think that im trying to say that he has a disease or something but im really not. Plus he doesnt like having sex with condoms…especially if we aren’t going to use a condom…I really would like for him to be tested! What should I do??

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Answer #1

Heck, if the guy doesn’t want to be tested, then he doesn’t want you as bad as you think. I’d ask him.

Answer #2

Be in control of YOUR own life. If he refuses to wear a condom (which isnt 100% effective) then you tell him that your not going to have sex! If that doesnt work, dump him, because any guy who doesnt respect you, doesnt care about you!

Answer #3

To lessen the offense he might take, tell him you want to get tested for his benefit, and if he says, no, no, you don’t need to, insist. Tell him the last thing you want to do is give him something that you might not know you have. If he doesn’t get the hint, he needs a slap, lol. Take him with you. Insist. And keep it light.

Answer #4

thanks guys=]

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