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I am a 16 year old girl. I have recently decided that I want to join th u.s. army. but my mom would disown me if I do and my boyfriend would probably break up wit me if I do. they are the only two important people in my life. should I just forget about joining the army or should I try to talk to them about it??? if I talk to them, what should I say to them???

PLEASE HELP ME!!!

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Answer #1

well if your boyfriend really loved you he would support your decision… now I understand what you mean with your mom because my mom is the same way but just give her time…

Answer #2

I am 17 I just fianlly signed my papers to the army…its not that bad just sit down and talk about your probs with the people you logve…I did this with my parents lil sisters and brother and my girlfriend and uncles aunts etc…and to tel lyou the truth I never cryied that much for happy tears the ysucked…but my family was the same. they cried because their own F*ck up is finally growing up…

Answer #3

wow thats really good advice, Thank you sooo much

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