Im not going to have a baby at 15, but is it weird that I want one so much?
I had my son when I was 19 he is now 8 months although I love him to peices and would never give him up he is the most hardest thing in my life. of course there are many joys of having a child but I think its best to wait untill you have had fun going out with friends and building a career , and finding the perfect person and having fun with then before settling down and having a family
my son wasnt planned and I am lucky that my partner has a good job but it is abroad for totaling 8months of the year so I am praticaly a single mother and its very very hard , even though I have no bills to pay as he sorts them there are still things you see and want to give them all the toys in the world even if thay can ask !!!
my advice is babys are great but you see a diffeent side when you have your own try setting your alarm ever 2 hours get up an hour and go back to sleep for 2 for 3 nights you will have a snippet of what it is like with a newborn
why not try looking after some friends or familys babies to get out your maternial side
good luck with you school work !!
Everyone wants a child, but you need to remember that a child is forever. Its not like a niece or nephew that you can just give back after your done. Its a lot of responsibility and a lot of money. You're 15 and have great things ahead of you. Finish school, go to college, and enjoy your freedom. Once you have a child, that will be your whole life. Its a blessing, but if you want whats best for this unborn child then you should get your life together so that you can offer your child the best life you can give them. If you love kids then work with them. But dont go having a baby right now. Your body is still growing and so is your mind. Once you make a decision to have a child, theres no turning back. It FOREVER! Everything is worth waiting for. You will appreciate your child more when your fully grown. You'll make a great mom but not right now...enjoy your child hood!
My best mateey.. who is also 15.. is always going on about how much she really wants a baby. I think it comes from wanting something/someone to love and for them to look up to you and love you back. It's not weird =] And like Sika said.. you shouldn't. We should enjoy our young age now while we can XD
a lot of people want babies because they're so cute and they're good with kids , but you're only 15 , you have your whole life to have a baby , you need to finish school , get married , get a job , have a house , then have a baby
Thank you sika and stellaapplemoor
I think you guys are right, I want somone to love. I never really thought of it that way and I understand now why I want a baby so much. you guys have been such a great help (:
I know you askd like six months ago but I don't think its weird because I felt the same way, or still do I dont know but I dont think its weird.
Your wanting a child probably stems from being lonely. It's not weird or uncommon. But you definitely shouldn't.
its not weird at all