How can I feel better about myself?

My boyfriend doesn’t trust me because I was texting another guy after he told me not to. It was so stupid of me to but I don’t like this guy and atleast I’m not cheating on my boyfriend. I didn’t even have a conversation with this guy either so it could be worse and I’m grateful it isn’t. But my boyfriend told me he hardly trusts me, I can understand why if I put myself in his shoes. I feel terrible about this whole situation and feel like I’m not good enough for him. He’s done so much for me and I repay him by not thinking before I act. How can I be good enough for him?

Answer #1

Excuse me? I didnt read the post the whole way? Exactly what part did I miss? She didnt say she cheated on him. She didnt say she flirted with another guy. Perhaps being a guy you feel automatically insulted, however, get over it. This isnt about you. And you may want to examine why this hit home for you…

Answer #2

He TOLD you? Excuse me? He’s not your father. Quite frankly, if your with a guy who doesnt make you feel good about yourself, you need to find another guy. You are good enough. If he doesnt realize it, that’s his fault, not yours.

Answer #3

Just gain his trust & never do that again…right now your gonna feel guilty… you realize how he feels & you hurt him so you don’t wanna lose that. trust over the stupid dumb texting incident…for now on do nice things for him to show you appreciate him & you will feel ..do bettrer towards him & always put him ahead of the next guy & speak highly of him & brag when he does good things & let him hear you, but be sincere and do it from your heart.

Answer #4

um dont lisen to a women like ty. im a man (24) and my girlfriend can talk to anyone she wants to. dont feel bad like you said it could be far worse just talk to him about the trust issue and if you have never done anything for him to mistrust you then you know what you need to breakup, simple b/c he has trust issues and thats some he needs to fix on his own. but if you the type to flurt with guys all the time (though you never do anything else) then you need to stop thats not right. seeing as ty didnt read your psot all the way like I did I assume hes a good guys cause he does so much for you (not sure what he does though) he must make you feel good. you have to see the fine line if hes nice but controlling then like I said break up with him, if he nice but insecure then talk to him about it, see if you can help him out. if not then you need to break up cause it will get worse if he doesnt address his own issues. but dont ever think that your not good enough for some one unless your treating them like dirt all the time or something.

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