I feel really guilty, what do I do?

heya, last night I was with this guy and we were watching tv in my room. we then got really close and started to kiss, after a while we started to strip off, he started fingering me and then we started to have sex. he then slept over and he fingered me again this morning, the only trouble is, is that I’m going out with his best mate and have been for a few months. this guy told me how good my breasts were and how nice my pubic hairs were, I also told him good stuff about his penis etc. I know it sounds horrible be this guy is really fit and when we had sex and he fingered me it felt much better than just going to the cinema with my boyfriend. I know feel really guilty, what do I do ?

Answer #1

Why were you in your room with your boyfriends ‘’best mate’’ in the first place? Ofcourse you should feel guity! You’ve just cheated on your boyfriend with his ‘’BEST MATE’’! My advice is tell your boyfriend what you’ve done, he shouldn’t have to hang with ‘’mates’’ like that or have girlfriends that cheat. And your only 14 or 15 for goodness sake! You should have more respect for yourself than that! I’m not going to be all ‘’don’t worry you’ll be okay’’ with you because that’s not true! And if I were you I’d take a pregnancy test, you might be pregnant for all you know, since having sex with this guy wasn’t planned and there was no protection. If you are then you’ve got tons more problems coming your way. Well done.

Answer #2

um. break up with your boyfriend.. if you acually care about him. both of you are horrible.. you both sound like you dont even care about your boyfriend or best mate at all.. and feeling guilty isnt the last think you should be worried about.. pregnecy test!! and from your other advice I can say you didnt even think about if you wanted to have sex with this guy or not..

Answer #3

Shyttt YOU have to live with that! If you really cared you wouldnt have dont that! even in the moment, this is what make us who we really are… thats really low

Answer #4

You break up with your boyfriend. If you ACTUALLY care about your boyfriend, you wouldnt of cheated on him. Sometimes, it takes stuff like this to make us realise we are with the wrong person.

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