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Worried christian virgin

Hey guys.. Im a 20 yr old female and a virgin. My fiance and I get along great and we are both very religious people. The problem is that I have been getting tempted to have sex with him lately. I really dont know what to do. The other day when we were kissing I was so turned on that it took hours after the kissing to get back to normal. I really want to wait til we are married. What should I do?

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Answer #1

Talk to him ahead of time and both of you can decide on where your boundaries are. The more open you are with each other, the easier it will be. Let him know what you want listen to what he wants and try to respect each other.

Don’t make it hard on him though. No sexy outfits! lol

Answer #2

Hey, I’m a christian too, and I’ve always been told to try and stay away from temptation, I know that’s really difficult!! But maybe you should try not kissing for a little bit, maybe until your wedding day now, I dont know when you’re getting married so that might be too long for you to cope, but maybe try that. Make sure you’re not alone together and try and pull away a bit if you’re feeling too turned on! I know it’s difficult, I’m only 16 but I’ve been in awkward situations already (:-S) but you’ve waited this long, so dont throw it away now!!! You can do it girl!!

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