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when will I stop being so insecure?

ok well im not a very small girl nor a very big girl but I tend to be very insecure where its to the point that when I go outside no matter how hot it is I wear a jacket over my shirt I don’t even wear skirts anymore. I dont talk to boys or if I know a boy like me I start thinkin negative thoughts like:”he really dont like me” and so on. I wanna loose weight but im the type that wants support I have support I guess ucansay but not the type I need.. my mother says she supports me and wateva but all she do is nagg nagg nagg and it gets annoyin. well anyway I also feel like I need some one to do these things with me and maybe it will help also well no one ever keeps their word on doin exercises and dietin and stuff with me but I mean I will do it by my self when it comes down to it juss ould like a lil company what should I do??:/ advice please

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Answer #1

I know that right now you are concerned about what everyone is thinking about you when you are around them, but the thing is they are too concerned about what everyone is thinking about them to even worry about thinking bad things about you. You just have to hold your head up high and have confidence in yourself. :)

Answer #2

I feel like you do a lot of time but I never let my insecurities stop me from things I love to do…nor to I let it stop me from wearing things I want to wear. a lot of people are a little overweight its a common thing and the only people that say smart remarks or rude things are the immature one who dont matter…but let me say this…if I say a overweight person wearing a short sleeved shirt and a skirt in the summer do you know what id think?? probably something along the line of, that shirt is cute. I wonder where she got it. I wouldnt even notice your weight. but do you know what I would think if I saw a overweight person wearing jeans and a long sleeved jacket in july?? id be like wtf that chick is crazy it is so hot out here how can she stand it… people have their own problems and dont have time to worry about yours or notice your flaws

so keep your head held high and be proud of who you are…people are attracted to confidence…it makes them comfortable…its key:)

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