Please help anything!!! Im not frigid I just dont know how to take what she wants.when where and how she thinks we can !
ok you are young im sorry I sound like every other older person who thinks they know it all and what not but I dont think you should have sex its a very important thing and its not common for someone so young to stay with the person that they like for the rest of their life I think you should only have sex with someone who you can invision a happy life with you know so if you accidentally made a baby that baby wouldnt be brought into the same thing a lot of babies are brought into im sure you knoe the reason people have sex isnt supposed to be for pleasure or fun its an important experience believe me im 17 I lost my virginity at 16 I let myself gain more self control by waiting I think you should tell her you should wait bringing sex into a relationship doesnt always have an enormous affect on your life but the younger you are the stronger a grip it has on you its nice to have sex but its better when youre truely and irrevokably in love so I really recommend waiting who knows maybe youll still be together in a few years and you can decide it then if you need to talk more im always open to helping -Cyn
your both too young and I doubt she has any sex education either menaing she can easily end up pregnant because shes so focused on having sex and not fiocused on learning about the consequences of it first not wanting to have sex doesnt make you frigid there is no competition to see who can loose there virginity first its personal preferance you do it when YOU feel ready, not when someone else does you should also both, (espceially her) LEARN about sex before you go off having it learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it because the main reason why kids and teens get pregnant and/or get stds is because of a lack of sex education (tell your girlfriend that)
if you are really only 14, still is young. im 14 and I have had sex, and speaking from experience, we are young.. trust me.. if you want to do it you will def. be able to find a way.. and trust me you will like having it, but make sure you guys def. want to first. you can always do other things besides totally going through with sex