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What do I do when my girlfriend only wants to kiss and finger me?

I’m Bi and my girlfriend, only really wants to kiss me nonstop, and she fingers me, I enjoy it really but I really want to wait. But ny hormones say otherwise, I just want to spend time with her, she’s a little older than me she’s almost 14 and I’m 13, but I really don’t understand this. What am I suppose to do…can you help me, please?!

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Answer #1

thanks and it will take a while to build up the courage

Answer #2

Ditto.

Answer #3

I admire you wanting to wait not just going for everything because your girlfriend wants to. The only thing you can really do is tell her you don’t want to go so fast. Sorry if that sounds hard to do but you gotta gather up your courage and talk to her.

Answer #4

yaa I agree.. if you just want to go slow and not do all that stuff.. ya it its nice every once in a while but not all the time ! you should tell her how you feel ! it may hurt her or it may be hard but its better then makeing you do something you dont wanna do all the time !! it might take a while to build up the courage to tell her but hopefully she undertsands !!

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