Think he knows he hurt me during sex?

Ok me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time together i’ve only had sex once before and I know hes not a virgin. I didn’t let him cum tho because we didn’t have condom. I hurt really really bad during and after I didn’t enjoy it at all.. Is that normal ?? Will the next time be a little better?? And after we were texting he asked if he hurt me.. I lied and said no.. Do you think he knows I lied haha??? Well I feel kinda embarrassed that I was all tight :-/

Answer #1

He might have torn something. You should buy some lube and use it so it doesn’t hurt so much going in. Before you do that though, you should get on birth control. Having unprotected sex puts you at high risk of pregnancy, even if he didn’t cum in you. There is such thing as pre-cum, it sneaks out now and then and the guy doesn’t even know.

Answer #2

Ok were you dry first of all because it can hurt a lot if your dry down there and he hasnt pleased you…second of all he could have broken/accidentally ripped something inside of you…

Ok if you were tight it usually because either you were tense under stress or you wernt wet (which is important) it is much smoother and you wont get hurt as much…

Maybe if you go to your doctor for help? but I think its cause you may have been dry…

Answer #3

you shouldn’t have lied to him. tell him he hurt you because if he doesn’t know it will probably happen again he’ll understand. if someone hit you would you be to embarressed to tell them? probably not. besides if your sleeping with him trust him enough to tell him even if it’s embarressing I know how hard that can be. and meganhead is right, be mature enough to use a condom.

Answer #4

just to let you know, you can still get pregnant even if he doesn’t ejaculate inside you. there are fluids he releases during sex before climax called precum. precum has sperm in it. precum can get you pregnant and give you stds. please, always make him wear a condom. if you are mature enough to have sex, you should be mature enough to educate yourself on sexual practices, birth control, and sexually transmitted diseases. you and your boyfriend should check out some sex education sites together, or take a trip to Planned Parenthood. pick up a pregnancy test if your period is late.

Answer #5

you might have had some damage done to the inside of yourself.. though condoms are used for birth control, another reason they are used is because most condoms are lubricated which makes it easier and less painful even so, you shouldnt lie, because as previously mentioned, it could happen again if he doesnt know any better

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