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A parent isnt the person who helped creat you but its the person that loves and cares for you and treated like you where there child even if they werent so if you love them than it doesnt matter and i know this from expierience my reall dad i havent talked to for many years neither do i wish to talk to him but i love my stepdad and think of him as my dad i call him dad because he cares and treats me like if i were from him.
Even if you aren't you Dad's child that doesn't make him any less your father. He's been there for you and raised you, same goes for my Dad, he's technically my step father but I've never referred to him as so because as far as I'm concerned he is my Dad, blood relative or no. You might be upset, and that's normal, but remember that you still have a father who cares about you, and that's more than some people can say.
You react however you feel (feelings are ok, as long as you dont hurt anyone else or yourself). I assume they mean you're not biologically your dad's child. That does not make you any less his child. Try to remember that. Biology does not make a parent. Being there for a child, raising a child, loving a child makes you a parent.
And that's fine. It's a little like grieving (after all, you have lost a sense of who you are and the world is a little more complicated right now). Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance, all common things to go through. First stage tends to be disbelief. It will kick in.
Wow that seems like a really tough emotion to deal with it all depends if you care or not will you be effected if your dad isn't really your dad or can you just get over the fact that he isn't your dad but you still love him and you accept him for that
understand her no matter what. she never gave you away & took care of you, don't judge her past she only knows why things really happen but you could ask her about him & find out why?
well just treat him like he is your dad still no matter what he is taking care of you
ummmmmm but if I was in your shoes I'll like to find out who my real dad is if that isn't him
The shock will wear off. There's no good way to handle this sort of thing. Just give it a little time and you'll be able to figure out the emotions running around in there.
depends. if ur mad then b mad. if ur cool with it then don't worry bout it. as long as ur not hurting urself or anyone else then feel ANYTHING! :)
BUt i am happy hes mine they dnt kno for sure so he most likel;y is mine an im happy he is
Well i love my dad but they dnt kno if im his child or not an im like whattt
Show ur feelings and say how u feel but dont let it ruin ur life..
tell them u demand a dna test...
I don't think that's necessary.
i wanna cry but i cant like wow
i kno but im like speachless
i alwayss will
idkkk mmm
thankss
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