My Girlfriend And Our Problem

Hello, Im a 16 year old boy living in Florida. I have a girlfriend that I have been dating for a year now. Everything should be going great, but its not. I love this girl with all my heart. She is suppose to be my one and only. The first few months that we have dated she has constantly cheated on me. She has kissed other guys and also been fingered by them, along with having phone sex with them. I keep giving her chances because I honestly believe she is the one for me. We have everything in common. I can tell her anything. No one else has been like her. I lost my virginity to her and she lost hers to mine. We both go to different high schools and I can never keep my eye on her. But more months have past and everything was going great. until she fooled around with someone at her school by getting fingered by her. I was picking a fight with him standing up for her before I actually knew it happend. I found out it happend like 3 or 4 months after it did. She said she has changed since then, but I cant get all the memories out of my head. Everything she did kept haunting me. I couldnt take it anymore so I went out with some other girl for a while but I wasnt happy. I missed her. I fooled around with the girl I was with and realized it wasnt right, so I broke up with her. Then me and my girlfriend got back together. But then she started holding all that on me. I thought she was out of her mind because of all the things she did to ME! So she has been spending time with some other guy but claims they arnt doing anything. I had serious doubts and I was right. When she was at his house he kissed her and she kissed him. But she is the one that told me. She hasnt done ANYTHING since then but it has only been like 2 months. And the memories are still around me. I really love this girl, and I dont want to find anyone else. I honestly think she is the one for me. For our one year, I am getting her a promise ring to show her how much I love her… What is your opinion?

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Answer #1

wooow! Seriously, dump her. If you know she is doing this to you and it’s obviously hurting you…she’s not worth your time. She probably wasn’t even a virgin when you met her. Open your eyes! She’s cheating on you 24/7 and it looks like she’s using you. Trust me. I made excuses or my friend all the time and found out they were just lying to me and using me, so I cut that friendship. It’s hard, but eventually you get over it and you’ll look back on it and say ‘Hey, I made the right choice.’ But if you keep on letting it go and forgiving her, she’s going to see it as ‘that sucker feel for it’ and keep on using and using you. You seem like a nice person and nice people get used a lot whether they notice it or not. You’re 16 years old! She is NOT the one for you! There is another girl or girls out there that are way WAY better for you than her. Get rid of her now, let her be with the other guy she’s probably with now as you’re reading this. Do it before you end up getting really hurt and scarred for life. You’re better than this and you deserve better.

oh…and don’t get her a promise ring. She’ll probably just pawn it and take the money to spend on some other guy.

Answer #2

My opinon is that you really do love this girl, at the same time you should forget how you feel and remember what you deserve. Why would you want a girl that clearly doesn’t care how you feel ? She didn’t care when she did all those wrong things to you . Yeah you love her but I’m pretty sure you can get over her and find someone much better that wouldn’t do that to you. All it takes is time. If you really do love her I guess keep holding on but sooner or later your going to get tired of her doing wrong things to you . Why would you want to be in a relationship with someone that keeps poking holes into your heart ? I bet your worth more than what she’s giving you. Well anyways good luck with her. If she truely loved/cared about you she wouldn’t do dumb things.

Answer #3

It sounds like you love this girl a great deal, or at least have very strong feelings for her. But you are not getting back the same kind of love. I’m sorry, but she doesn’t feel the same. If she did then she wouldn’t be doing this, sweetie. It’s not easy for many people to forgive someone who cheated on them, and you did…you need to be a strong person to do that. And you must be, but there’s only so much you can take. I know it hurts every time you find she does something else… Why put yourself through that pain again? She’s not worth your time, and there are hundreds of girls out there waiting for a sweetheart like you! She will keep taking advantage of you, and you sound like her go to guy when she’s bored, or has no one else. I wouldn’t stay with her, and she doesn’t sound like the one for you.

And I don’t think that you should get her a promise ring…I don’t think she’d be thankful…or take care of it. It’s a special thing, and she doesn’t sound like the right person to give it to.

Hope all goes well.

Answer #4

whoaa…damn. I say let the whole relationship go and move on. Sure you love her, but you need to move on man, find a better girl who actually cares and wants to be faithful to you and not treat the relationship like crap and that it doesn’t matter. She’s out there, trust me.

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Answer #6

if thats true why is he here asking for opinions and telling us what you did to him. Girl as far as I know not a lot of boys write that huge paragraph, just to express how bad he feels. So instead of shutting us down, try to improve your relationship. you have to understand that yousr actions although you have recognize that were stupid, brings consequenses. this is one of them. I mean if the roles were reversed, im sure we would tell you the same thing.

Answer #7

I dont know if you didnt think I would find this or not, but if you really feel that way, fine. break up with me. for all those stupid fu*cking people who said I dont deserve him, I say you shut up and get a life cause I love this boy with all my heart and I made stupid decisions but I DID change and I want that promise ring MORE THAN YOU KNOW!! SO SHUT UP AND GET A LIFE because I LOVE HIM AND I WANT TO BE WITH HIM FOR EVER!!!

Answer #8

I say you can get better, I know the memories hurt because you loose it to her, and first love its always the hardest, believe me I’ve been there, but the true is ask yourself, is it love or you are just shadowed with “infatuation”. ask yourself, do I really LOVE a CHEATER?, DO I REALLY LOVE SOMEONE that is not HONEST? be realistic TRUE love is being true to YOURSELF.

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