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My Ex has a NEW girlfriend, but I still want him..

I know exactly what your going through.. My ex boyfriend dumped me because I acted like I didn’t want to be with him. Which is total BS, but when I would get around him I would be so shy and my heart would jump in my chest and I wouldn’t know what to say, we talked sometimes, but he said he was shy too, so I mean I thought everything would get better, well he broke up with me, and it hurt. Then I asked him IF I would EVER get a second chance, and his exact words were, I don’t know Maybe then I told him the next day that this girl named Janice liked him. (BIGGEST MISTAKE!) He said he liked her as a friend. Then guess what they go out now, I cried, like forever. then I texted him say hey, whats up. then I said I’m happy for you and janice and he said I think your lien but it don’t matter, anyways whats up? I like this guy sooo much he’s blind to think I don’t. I need some advice, please someone help me.. What should I do?

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Answer #1

He already suspects you still have feelings for him,But he is now taken which is your worst nightmare.Obviously,he dumped you for “I acted like I didn’t want to be with him.” Biggest excuse.He just didnt want to hurt your feelings and he just wanted to move on to somebody different.If he dumped you,that means he didnt want you anymore.Sorry,if I sound blunt,but the truth hurts.But,dont worry,you will find somebosy who is worth your time and wants you every second of the day…He may have given you those lovely butterflies,but soon,those butterflies will fly away to somebody different.AT least you are being amicable with him and having friendly chats,just dont go boyfriend stealing…Thats giving love a bad name.And just forget him,do what you need to get done and focus on yourself and be yourself and your happy full presence will draw love to you and will draw people who admire your personality…Then,your ex will regret losing you…

Answer #2

ok dis is so me rite now..lol..but just try not to think about it so much because it would really hurt.I think you should try to forget about the past because the future would be so much better without him because there would be someone else with you.just try to appreciate what you guys had before and just look for someone else .

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