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im 14 and im pregnant how do I tell my parents!!! please help me!!!
Sit them down and tell them straight up. Tell them you have thought long and hard about it and you want to (do whatever you want to do; abortion(bad), adoption, keep it) they cant stop any of your choices. Tell them that you love them and it was a mistake. They will be mad but they will understand and be there for you. Just tell them that you need their support and it is your fault and not thiers. goodluck! tell me how it goess!!
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well I guess it depends on how your parents are. eventually they will get over it. im 19 and when my parents found out I was pregnant they werent to impressed and im married. but when I went into labor my mom was sooo worried and when I went in to my c section my mom was so scared. my husband let her come in with me. but know that I have my little boy my mom is sooo head over heels for him. she loves him soo much she has to see him everyday.
you just have to sit down and tell them straight up. that your pregnant. they will be mad at first, but they will get over it. I was 17 when I found out I was pregnant and I was scared to death to tell my parents. so I told my aunt (which we are very close) and we told my parents together.
she got over it. im married now. & I have a beautiful 6 month old daughter who my parents spoil & adore
Start by sitting down with them and asking them if they love you (maybe at dinner or some other time it's just the 3 of you). Then ask how much. Thern ask "what if I did something really stupid, would you still love me?"
By now, they know something's up and will pry it out of you in terms THEY're willing to accept.
You just have to be honest and GET IT OVER WITH. The longer you wait, the more scared you will get. And trust me, you dont want them to find out from anyone else. You should be upfront, but if your too scared, you can write them a note.
First ignore that knot in your stomach. Tell them you are a lesbian. Soon, before the shock wears off, say just kidding and tell them you're only pregnant. Haha, I'm joking of course, just be honest. Have daddy there if you can.
YOU HAVE TO TELL THEM THAT YOU MADE AN HONEST MiSTAKE...&+& THAT YOU ARE SORRY BUT YOU HAVE TO TELL THEM YOU CANT HiDE iT FOREVER MAYBE iT iS BEST TO TELL YOUR MOTHER FiRST iS SHE THE EASiER ONE FOR YOU TO TALKT TO..
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OmG y did you hve sex in the first place??? when you knew the consequences?? iii feel bad 4 u and your 14???
you be upfront and honest and tell them gently when you can sense they are in a good mood.
she is in a dificult situation smarty123 how whould you feel
