Okay so here is the dealz.
Well right now I have a mom and a dad. Right? But the thing is he is not my real dad. My real dad basically got my mom pregnant and left. He saw me once when I was 3 weeks old and then never again. He did ask my mom to marry him but she said no. Because he was aparently a pathelogical lier or sumthin. But I really want to locate him. Last time I heard he was working at a gas station but that was like 3 years ago. I have told my mom this and she said she would help but that was like last year and she has'nt tried anything yet. I havnt told my dad that I wanted to meet him because I no it would make him sad. But I at least want to no why he didnt keep in touch. And like what does he look like, I want to no if I look like him or not because I sure as hell dont look like my mom. I like dont even no how old he is. Its not like I want jeff to be a father to me, I just want to no if I have any other brothers or sisters out there and maybe have a friendship with jeff. I just want to get to no him. I just want to no some background info, like what culture I come from and what not.. So does anybody no if there is any way to find someone you are looking for.
Like I no he is'nt in the phone book, is there any other way to find a number?
Or like an address, or workplace or anything?
Im from saskatchewan, canada, so no u.s. Websites,those wont help
I need some ideas, anyways please try and help. Thanks.
Don't listen to Bimjob. You look for your father! You have that right! Your birth father is a part of WHO YOU ARE! He is still a part of your identity. You have the natural pure desire to know the other part of who created you. There is a story to every side and you need to give your brirth father the benefit of the doubt.
I didn't know my father my wole entire life until I found him 2 years before he passed away. I had always wondered about him, what he looked like, how he acted, instead of wondering if the stranger standing next to me in a grocery store could have been my father. Children have to know for themselves and not have the selfishness of the parent involved from keeping them form knowing that person. The child needs closure and you can decide for yourself, "instead of someone else making the decision for you" to keep the two of you apart. You can decide if you want to continue a relationship with your biological father or not, that's your right. Your mom loves you and she and your step dad should be understanding of this desire that you have and help.
If you know his full name, date of birth and approximately where you may think he may live, such as a city and state ,you may be able to find him in the yahoo people search. That is how I found mine.
I'm glad I found my father, we kept in touch after we had met and I know he loves me now and I feel some kind of fullfilment in finding him before he died.
I want to find my real parents my parents now have told me nothing at all bout my real biological parents and im 26 years old, I feel as though there's a hole in my heart that needs to be filled I'll never leave the parents I have now they've given me everything I could ever want like a good education life with them hasbut I have to find my real parents to know and see why things happened the way they did I just really want to find me real parents and see if I've and brothers and sisters. can anyone tell me where I could start, I m lost
Your REAL father is the guy who stayed around to help raise you, but if you want to find your sperm donor possibly work records. In the US everyone has a social security number, and if Canada has something like that, or where he once worked (the date and address), it may be a starting point.
But don't get your hopes up too high. Your Mom already made a judgement that he was unfit to help raise you. Don't expect some wonderful reunion.
But I do wish you
I went through this same thing my father never saw me and I looked for him for years all I knew was his name! I"m 22 and I finally found him last year! I used this online program at "netdetective.com" It's not free but It's only 30 bucks! I tried all the free stuff for years and finally I just bought the program. If you try it and it works will you let me know what happens??? Please and Thanks!!