I want a baby

do you not think she had already thought about this just to ask the question she was asking 4 advise about the contreception she is on not what you think about teenage pregnancys

have you even had sex yet cause it hurts.. do rush you will have a baby soon us wait a little longer

Your 18, why rush into having a baby? Are you seriously finacially ready and stable to have this baby? Have you thought about what will happen if he leaves you? Do you have health insurance? Are you capable of buying a crib, formula, diapers, and everything else you need for the baby? Do you have a reliable place to live (not your parents house or his)? Have you been to school and accomplished what you want to already? Are you ready to give up your entire social life and most of your friends (I promise they all leave when you have a kid)? Are you ready for the emotional toll that having a newborn will take on you? Can you afford Daycare every week? Are you ready to gain weight, have strechmarks, hemmroids, and to give your body up for another human being? I seriously think you need to think about this more, having a baby is something that is very serious that should not be played around with because you simply WANT one.

but still she wasnt asking about your life story she wanted advise not a lecture fair play to you for admitting that it is hard to be a parent but it still wasnt what she ws asking

Doesn’t matter, you will be a teen parent though, so I was telling you what I think. I was not rude with you in any way though so dont think that. I was just putting it out there, how it is in real life.

yes I understand but I really do want a baby. my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and we are getting married so I think its time we should start our family…

oh yeh its ment to take about a year and a half to get pregnant after the depo but saying that my aunt got pregnant 3 weeks after coming off

I can give my opinion on anything I would like when you post on the internet for the whole world to see. I gave her my opinion, which is the truth, believe me, I have a 3 month old son. I’m 23 years old, and it’s still very hard. I hate seeing teenagers come on here saying they are ready to have a baby, when they still have so much in life left to do, and have no idea how much work it takes emotionally and physically. I’m trying to help her out and give her a perspective on things.

I asked if it will be hard to conceive not what do you think abt teens that want to be parents…

Again, I understand that. But it did have to do with what she was asking, she is saying that they have decided to have a baby, it’s not like I went completely off topic there. Want me to answer her question fine, after having the shot, it can take several months to become pregnant, although some people have no problems conceiving after, and some do. Although, I still stand by my first post, all I was doing was giving advice on something that I thought she should here.

good luck