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I think my my parents hate me

every time I try to do something, and I don’t do it perfectly, they accuse me of not even trying, even though I am trying. If I do anything that makes them mad after they have their usual 3-4 drinks daily, they grab my neck/shirt and shake me until I am about to faint and say that what is true is not and that they are right (they are normally drunk when this happens). After this happens they deny that they have done anything like that before (this happens about 5-6 times per year. every time I do something wrong I get the usual you are horrible, and can’t do anything speech( my teacher does this too) I feel like I am always being watched and am always in fear of them going insane. They invade my personal space, and are very secretive. I feel like they are plotting something behind my back. I have talked to my school councilor and my parents have talked to her, but nothing has changed. What should I do? Is there something wrong with me?

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Answer #1

IF YOU HAVE TALKED TO YOU COUNSELOR THEN SHE/HE SHOULD OF DONE SOMETHING ABOUT IT.. THAT PERSON IS NOT DOING THEIR JOB. MAYBE YOU COULD CSB OR HAVE YOUR COUNSELOR DO IT. OR EVEN TELL A FAMILY MEMBER.

Answer #2

omg you should call like someone who could do something about that… maby get your parents some help! try to tape them when they do that to you.. so when they see them selves they cant deny it. maby they will want to change…

Answer #3

of course is nothing wrong with you! It’s your parents in my opinion. I would say that they need help in parenting. Just try to getin some sessions iwth a family counselor.

Answer #4

it kind of sounds like maybe you have borderline personality, and your parents are alcoholics with depression, as for your teacher, she has no reason, if you dont see any progress in your relationship with your parents talk to child services, NO ONE deserves what they do to you. good luck

Answer #5

call a counselor or just hang at a friend s house most the time just try to spend less time with them and im sorry to hear about that

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Answer #6

I’ve been through the same thing. doing everything and then saying its not good enough. you just have to ignore that part and just let it go in one ear and out the other. as for them touching you, you have to call someone you don’t want to be in a house with that. especially because it could get worse. tell someone else in your family like an aunt and have her call child services.

Answer #7

they dont hate you but you should hate them

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