I cant stand my little brother anymore!!! help!!!

I cant stand my little brother anymore!!! he argues with me, answers me back to everything, gets me told off constantly for every little thing I do whether its calling him a name or laughin at something he had done or stupid little things like I accidently stood on his football pitch (which is the whole living room floor), is so annnoying!!! I really want to hurt him sum times! he is 9 and dances in front of tv’s, run about, jumps on sofas and beds, sings, lies, doesnt go to sleep and hardly ever gets told off!!! then one time after he attacked me and was kickin me I flipped, yelled at him and slammed a door I got told off, sent to my room and grounded!!! ITS NOT FAIR!!! he gets let off all the time because he younger! he eats with his hands but thats ok because he’s younger, hes little, I should rise above it!!! but I cant, its constant and I cant stand it!!! he wont stop, never!!! what can I do?? how can I stand it!!! advice, please!!! help! I dont want to hate my brother, but I do at the moment!!! ahhh! help!!!

Answer #1

I dont like my brother we beat the crap out of eachother sometimes because I hit him for making me mad then he gets pissed and I get him in a choke hold so he cant do anything… then I let him calm down. Ok this is how it works and its a great analogy… ok if your in karate and your a higher belt than someone and you fight a belt lower than u, you beat them they say youshould have gone easier, or you lose they say what are you doing letting a lower belt beat u… nomatter what its your fault… just keep it in mind (I have to case im the oldest of 5)

Answer #2

OK so honestly I hate mine at times to but he dose not mean anything by it he dose those things because he wants your attention that is all he dose not want you to hate him not at all he wants to be like you and like me when I lived at home I never really gave my bro the time of day so I just think that he did that because he wants my attention and yours wants yours its life you know he willl grow out of it but I so understand I wanted to reallly hurt mine one time like really bad but I didnt

Answer #3

Look, I know your very angry at the moment, and by the things you have described- I can see why! But the thing to realise is that a lot of older siblings feel the same about their younger brothers and sisters. He doesnt know any better yet, and when you and him are much older im sure you will get on great. I am an only child but I see my friends get really angry at times towards their bros & Sisters. I would love a brother or sister at times, just think how you would feel if he was never there everyday..if there was no noise in the house etc & im sure you would feel kinda lonely?

Answer #4

You’ll have that. My brother used to be the same way. Give it a year or two and he’ll be “too cool” for you. As far as you getting in trouble .. Im the first born and I used to get in trouble for EVERYTHING. Now that I am moved out my brother gets away with murder. I always knew he’d have it easier but that’s life. Parents tend to be more strict with their first child.

Answer #5

The more you show your brother that you’re getting annoyed - the more he’s going to annoy you.

Answer #6

oh wow, my little brother (he’s 8) is just about the same way! he’s a hitter though, when he gets mad he like attacks people and when I like hold him down 2 stop him, I get in trouble for “abusing him.” once he wasnt supposed 2 have candy (he might get a cavity any day now) and he brought home a lollipop and ate it right in from on my face, knowing that he wasnt allowed to have it (he does that, that’s his game). I took it out of his mouth and told him that he was going to get in trouble and that he wasnt allowed to have it. guess what he did…he took an pencil and stabbed me in the arm with it! I was bleeding and everything. I still have the scar… I’m sorry, I’m not sure what to do either, I just wanted to let you know that my little brother really annoys me 2.

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