wanna know instead?
This all ties back to ethics. For example, you know that your best friend's boyfriend is cheating on her. If you tell her, she will be heartbroken. If you don't tell her, she will eventually find out and be heartbroken. There are 3 approaches to moral reasoning: deontology ( the nature of the act itself (Separate from intention and consequence)), perfectionism (The effect of the act on the person's character), and consequentalism (the practical consequences of the act). So it all depends on which approach you take.
I would want to know, I don't so to well with secrets, especially ones that will hurt