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I’m sixteen years old. One night I got totally trashed and had sex with a boy, a one night stand. I wasn’t pressured into anything it just sorta happened. I’d known the boy for a few years but had only seen him maybe three times because he lived out of state. He’s a player and has had sex with more girls than I can count on my fingers and toes, I used protectin don’t worry. When I had sex with him that night I planned on never seeing him again, therefore never having to have any sort of communication with him at all. But I recently found out that he’s moving back into town and I know I’m going to see him because he is a good friend of a friend. I don’t want to blow off my friend just because hes going to be around and I don’t want to avoid him and let him think somethings up. The sex didn’t mean anything to me but he thinks hes a god in bed or something and as much as I don’t want to have a conversation about our little rondevue I’m almost certain he’s going to bring it up even if it’s just in a little smart remark…So my question is…What do I say to this guy without making him think I’m into him, because I’m not. It was just sex. How would you handle the situation???

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Answer #1

HE IS A HUGE PLAYER BUT ALL OF HIS FRIENDS AND EVEN HIM HAVE TOLD ME HE LIKES ME LIKE FOR REAL. MY BULLSHIT RADAR GOES OFF BIG TIME WHEN I HEAR THAT BUT SOMETIMES I GET THE FEELING THAT THATS TRUE. OR THE SEX IS JUST REALLY GOOD because HE JUST KEEPS COMING BACK FOR MORE!! LOL HE IGNORES EVERYBODY THAT DROWNS HIM WITH ATTENTION BUT I IGNORE HIM AND HE WONT LEAVE ME ALONE. IM NOT PLAYING GAMES OR PLAYING HARD TO GET because HE ALREADY HAD IT AND IM NOT INTERESTED!! I JUST WISH I WAS A MIND READER because USUALLY IM REAL GOOD AT FIGURE PEOPLE OUT, EPSPECIALLY BOYS, BUT I JUST CANT SEEM TO PUT MY FINGER ON IT WITH THIS KID AND IT DRIVES ME CRAZY!! HELP HELP HELP!!

Answer #2

I’d suggest just blowing it off, if he brings it up just shrug it off. And show that you aren’t interested. If he is a playa like you said than there is also a pretty good chance he isn’t gonna make anything of it. I’d just play it cool and not let it be a big deal.

Answer #3

IM GOING TO HAVE TO BE AROUND HIM BECAUSE HE IS ONE OF MY GOOD FRIENDS FRIENDS. I NEED TO KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO HIM NOT HOW TO AVOID HIM:(

Answer #4

Just stay away from him wherever possible, or just have a word with him on his own and say that it was only sex, nothing else and you’d like for him to stay away from you?

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