Last night, as the very first time I have masterbated and I don't know if I had an orgasm or not... about how long does it take to reach one? I only tried for like five minutes.. please help.. I wanna know.
I think yoou should turn on some music, and get in th mood for that. then lay on you back, totaly bare, and begin. go in a diferent positions, and speed it and slow it. dot do it to much or it will begin to hurt. if you have a shower head that comes off(I like to do this), then take that and put it against yourself and spred your legs. it has an amazing affect. try it, and I promise, you will love it!!
Everyone is diferent - some people can make themselves last for a while without orgasm, others can only last a few minutes. I know exactly what you mean by "not knowing if you've had an orgasm" - I'm the same.
Different or every female, stay at it.
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