Well I have used a dildo twice and it hurt but I didn't bleed. I did this so when my boyfriend and I have sex I can enjoy it more and he wont have to worry about hurting me. When I look down there I still see my hymen...why is it still there?
Either it didn't penetrate enough, or your hymen has already been broken by another method.
However, you should know that it's not the breaking of the hymen that causes pain - it's the stretching of the tight vaginal walls and breaking the hymen isn't going to stop that.
damnjeans06 I think I have your answer sometimes when teenage girls use dildos or have sex with their boyfriends for the first time the hymen will not break most of the time sometimes this is natural because young women are all different and all have different body symtoms
simple awnser you may have already "popped it" when you were younger, the opening in the hymen is large enough to accommodate the dildo, you popped it with the dildo and didn't bleed (some girls don't and it dosen't magically disappear after)
If you used a dildo and didn't bleed, then your hymen is already gone. Any penetration (especially with a good sized object) will tear it.
