I am going to have sex with my boyfriend this weekend for the first time, I am ready and can't wait, I am a virgin but he isn't and I've made him go for all STI checks before hand. and now were both ready, I want it to be special so how should I prepare physically, any tips on what to wear? Shaving? and any sex tips? please any contributions will be appreciated I just want to make it special so that we both enjoy it, I know its going to hurt but should I prepare for the pain and any way to reduce it? Please help, thankyou (:
Okay, wear somthing sexy. Lingerie if you have any, if not than anything short that shows some skin and clevage. You should shave if you want to or he if he likes it smooth. And deffintly shave everywear else that you usaully shave! Lol. For sex tips, uhmm..be relaxed. If there is anything happening that makes you uncomfortable, than feel free to tell him to stop. And there isn't really any way to stop the pain besides making sure he goes slow and soft at first. Good luck girl(; I hope I helped.
remember to LEARN about sex before you go off having it learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it because the main reason why kids and teens get pregnant and get stds is because of a lack of sex education
and to make sex easier and hurt less use lubricant
Shave is a def yes. Don't worry about the pain it shouldn't hurt if it does its only for a second and if your hymen isn't broke and you start bleeding don't freak out just go with the flow. make sure hes prepared for that to.. tell him to be very gentle and you will be fine..
Well, there really shouldn't be any pain if if you're a virgin as long as you're relaxed. If you use tampons then your hymen is already broken. You should be all set. Lingerie sounds fun. And yeah, shave. XD
kudos on hving him get checked for STI's. most people dont do that
